Why do I need to know someone likes me before I fall for them too?

[Anonymous]

I mean there were two girls I fell in love with and both cases I knew they like me first. After that i fell in love

[mickmrly]

You are probably just requiring a bit more self confidence. Initial attraction and feelings can be very flimsy no matter who initiates, but as long as actually do like them it’s okay to be a little cautious. Just make sure you let them know how you feel about them eventually without making them carry the whole relationship.

[Guy13]

That 's not falling in love... that's seeking security. You discovered a security blanket that is better than the electric blanket.

[nspencer]

Have you been hurt in the past? You could be more comfortable to open yourself up if you know where the other person is at?

[Hinaaaaa]

Something psychological

[Anonymous]

bullshit