Why so many guys start dating ugly big fat women? is that a new trend? should I stop hitting the gym and be fat?

[Anonymous]

[hello123456789]

Some guys are just desperate. And sometimes guys may actually see something in a bigger girl especially if he is a bigger guy.

But dont stop going to the gym. Forget about looks for a second... Going to the gym is about you living your best and healthiest life possible. Don't workout or stop working out just because of a man or woman. You go to the gym for you! Make it hobby and a part of your life regardless of who hits on you or not. Embrace the fitness.

And... most men still prefer to have a fine toned chick. 😉 Squats work wonders too.

[Texaskid1]

Fat women are easy since no one hits on them.

I have chased fit, good looking women and they are always hard to get.

OTH , at work there was this one fat co-worker that I would make some friendly chit-chat with once in a while. As far as I knew I was not being flirty or anything but she seemed to think that and all of the sudden several people at work are telling me she is single and asking about me and I what not. This is one of the reason I no longer make chit chat with any of the women at work ( even good looking ones) - they seem to misconstrue my friendliness as hitting on them.

Oh... and also the whole #metoo thing which has convinced so many American women that if a man merely looks in her direction it is rape.

[Bethany22]

Because their faces are still prettier than thin girls' faces, or maybe their proportions are better than most thin girls (i. e, small torso, long legs), that the gym would never be able to fix

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Funny enough, I do care about a girl's body more than her face. A body that I don't like can be an INSTANT turn off.

[BlueScorpio]

Because your opinon on what ugly and fat is could be different from there's?

[Anonymous]

1) as I grew and matured and experienced life. I came to the realization that WHO a woman is matters far more then how she looks. thats not to say that ill bed anything with a pulse. Just that I weigh a woman’s qualities. If we are talking the 10/10 looks scale and 10/10 personality scale. Id rather have a woman that is 10/10 personality or as close as possible and be say 6,7,8,9/10 looks wise. Vs 10/10 looks wise and 5 or less /10 personality wise. In my years I have yet to see a woman that is 10/10 on both scales.


2) I actually prefer plus size women over gym bodies.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Its because that's who they able to get or believe so.

You could have a good looking guy, smart, makes good money, who has confidence issues and that may just be all he believes he can get.

The slimmer woman who's seen as more attractive probably has inflated expectations on what she should get.

[MCheetah]

Don't worry; you don't need to pretend like you go to the gym and are now quitting, for that. All those guys will already like you as you are! Who needs a skinny, plastic surgery bish? 🙂

[misogynistic_pig]

They want easy sex and the fat ones are the easiest.

[Texaskid1]

True dat!!

[inhua]

or you can get with a fat guy and see how they like it?

[Berethor]

The main advantage that they have is big boobs, yea it's new feminist trend. :)

[LimitedBenefits101]

LOL why you lying, nobody wants a landwhale.

[Asker]

I'm not lying. in Asian countries, many local and foreign guys dating big women, they even date a woman 3 times bigger then them

[Anonymous]

This must be an American thing. It is rare to see a fat person here.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Maybe you have a different standard for women that isn't men's.

[Anonymous]

No it wouldn't help, because you're personality would still be bad🤣🤣🤣

[cuckbetamale]

I'll take anyone I can get.. I like bigger women, women in general intimidate me

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Because of low standards.

[In_Trance]

whatever works for you

[Luckycharms12]

Sounds like you are butt hurt

[Dreamclouds]

No, please don't get delusional