Is true love Fated and Destined?

[Katebfun]

I believe it is. We only get 3 maybe 4 chances to fall in love in a lifetime. Most are single for years maybe decades.

You date casually or go on many 1st dates. Either you don't like them or vs. versa. If both like each other then Either the timing is off or the other does not want to commit. If you try it's a struggle and eventually it ends.

When you meet the right person Fate Desnity. Everything literally magically happens and flows. You don't even have to put much effort in. It's as if the cosmos are conspiring this union and "Love" happens. You finally meet someone you know is different and maybe special. Clearly love is fated.

[D-Pad_Chad]

Fated love is the fastes way to dying alone. You might hear a few stories, but overwhelmingly it's not the rule. Love takes effort and fated love seems like a cop out to be lazy and blame failed relationships on "it wasn't fate" or "they weren't the right one." In reality someone didn't put the effort into the relationship, although not all relationships are worth effort either.

[Guy13]

I prefer in the sovereignty and providence of God love is discovered. Something has to create, fate, and/or destined Love.

[RealMarek]

I’m in a relationship where falling in love felt that way and still does years into it, but I think there are other paths and ways love can form and grow.

[Guardian45]

HAHAHA!!🤣🤪 NOT that I can tell!