why are so many Asian women married to white guys?
529 opinions shared on Dating topic. I believe it's because men in overall like women who are short and petite. Asian women on average are very short in height - that's why.
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1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. So I might be a rare case, not sure. But I'm black and have had sex and relationships with more than one Asian woman. I actually have never been one of those guys with an 'Asian fetish,' I just have oddly clicked with some and we took it from there. They can be very sweet women and you learn a lot from them. However, I am aware that a lot of Asian women are still crazy about white men, yes.
I think a large reason is because Asians tend to view Caucasians as being a superior race to people of color and other cultures. They think whites are smarter, make better partners, or think white skin is more attractive. Asian women are just as guilty of having a white fetish as the white guys are of having an Asian fetish. Although there are plenty of Asian parents who actually don't even want their daughters to date white because they feel like they need to stick with their own race, but their parents will still settle for her being with a white man before a black one.
But, DISCLAIMER: There are plenty of Asian women who are not like this and are not racist, and there are actually quite a few who like black and other races of men more than they really make known for fear of criticism or even family ostracization. As time has gone on, more Asian women have acknowledged the bigotry in their culture particularly against blacks and are becoming more relaxed about their dating choices other than white.
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Yeah, every race has been programmed to look at white skin and features as being the most beautiful. Both Asian women and white men want each other, so it's going to be easier for them to hit it off. White men like not only Asian beauty - which is admirable - but they also like Asian women for subserviance. Asian women like them back because they're white and because they think white men are the most intelligent and good for marriage.
The Asian women who are more likely to be attracted to black men - in my experience anyway - are Thai (which is no.1), Vietnamese, Cambodian, Indonesian, and Filippina. These are the most attractive Asians to me anyway so it works. - +1 y
I'm am very attracted to white men too. Mainly for their looks, not because of anything else. Asian women and white men seem like the most popular interracial group in the US.
East Asians and black people don't tend to have much in common, culturally wise. Thai, Cambodians have more in common with blacks than east Asians do. Understand that east Asians are very conservative Asian values. Thai and Cambodians and Philippines are less like that mainly due to colonization - +1 y
Asian women and white men are also popullarly depicted. Like I was saying you have more and more Asian women letting go of the stereotype that white is best or that black is not a good option. Koreans and Chinese have the most racial issues with blacks, although my ex is Korean and she loves black men, but her father doesn't want her dating them, like I was saying about parents above.
Thais, Viets, Cambodians, and the others may just be a little more advanced in their thinking, or just overall less likely to have strict vision on race. - +1 y
If you walk into a hospital you'll find the same thing with Asian doctors and nurses. Doesn't really matter. What you're basically saying is proving my point: so because Cambodians, Philippines, etc. have less education or ambition, that them being okay with black people is to be expected, as if black automatically ties with that. And that east Asians are more 'educated'. This is equal to what I was saying about how Asian women feel that white is superior and more intelligent. You just proved that.
The Cambodians, etc. might also have a little more compassion for blacks because they understand a history of oppression from their own past, with the 'more educated' countries of China and Japan that controlled them and damaged their societies. - +1 y
I don't think its because Philippines or Cambodians have more sympathy for black people. I think its just that they both have more in common culturally together. Realize that people tend to marry those who are similar to themselves. People marry those who are similar in intelligence, values, culture, age, race (though not all the time).
East Asian women share more values in common with whites than blacks. - +1 y
Again, you're saying that because Cambodians, etc. have less education, ambition, more crime, etc. that that's what they have in "common culturally" with black people. A super racist thought process.
It would do you some good to educate yourself more and watch a lot more videos about about Asian women and black men. YouTube has plenty. And most of those women are the East Asians you see as having superior wisdom in preference. - +1 y
It's interesting because you often times go on and on about misogyny and all the men out there who have issues with women, yet you show yourself to be a bigot - and seem proud of your thought process. And then try to say "Don't take me the wrong way." I have noticed that a lot of women who are paranoid about misogyny tend to still be racist. Never understood why.
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That has nothing to do with the fact that I was trying to assert "East Asians have nothing culturally similar to black people hence thats why we don't tend to date them. " Be offended and argue against it, call me every name on earth. The truth is the truth. I'm not gonna lie about it.
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@ManOnFire I actually spoke to a Chinese girl whom I rent my room to, that my parents disliked me dating my fiance who is white. I told her that I am not that selective when it comes to races as long as the guy is a Christian, so he can be black, Latino, or other Asians. She responded something like “Huh, your parents are weird, he is white and he is above all of us” I looked at her and asked what does she mean by that (though I know what she really meant) According to her, her parents taught her to look at white people as the most superior race. I don't know how to react on that but ever since she stated that ignorant statement, I avoid talking to her. Yea I took it personally because I never want to get involved with an idiot like her.
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@desidoll
thats such a dumb stereotype. A lot of Asians actually don't see whites as a suprieror race. My chinese parents told me they preferred that I marry a chinese guy so that they can communicate with him. Most Asians actually don't see whites as suprieror race. Trust me, mainland immigrants from china want nothing to do with whites. Vast majority of Asians date other Asians. - +1 y
@haha456 Many Chinese do see whites as superior. Your parents told you they only want you with your own race, but I already told you Asian parents are like that. I have a Korean buddy who's parents also don't want him dating anyone other than Korean.
I love Chinese culture and I'm even learning Chinese right now, but the people still have a problem with blacks. It helps to see stories from Chinese women though who reject racism and white supremacy. - +1 y
@ManOnFire
Most Asians do not see whites as suprieror. White / Asian couples are the most popular couples but it doesn't mean most Asian women marry white men. Most do not. - +1 y
@ManOnFire
I don't think there's anything racist for being attracted to a certain race. I'm attracted to white guys, it doesn't mean I'm racist or that I'm for white supremacy. White guys simply look hot to me.
You're a black guy who desires Asian women. Does it mean that you see Asian women as suprieror to black women? NO. Its just a individualized attraction. - +1 y
But its racist how people mock Asian women for being attracted to white men but nobody ever criticizes white men for being attracted to Asian women. Or that if anyone is attracted to an Asian woman then it must be called "an Asian fetish".
what is so wrong about being attracted to white men?
Based on dating app statistics, white men are the most popular racial group for men. - +1 y
@ManOnFire
are you promoting "Asian superiority" by wanting to date Asian women over black women?
thats exactly what im talking about. - +1 y
I like Asian women, but I also like other races of women as well. It's just that both my experiences with them have stood out in particular and impacted me differently than with other women. In my real life, black women I know have not been offended by my relationships with Asian. Black women hate it much more if you're a black man who glorifies white women while putting down black - and black women definitely have a right to hate that. Even I do.
What makes it wrong with what Asian women do is that they often put white men so high on a pedestal to a point of having disgust for black man, and them in particular. These kinds of Asian women also loooooove being seen in public with their white boyfriends or husbands. One of my Asian female friends notices this too and she hates it.
I will also tell you how bad it is in customer service. When I used to work in retail, often times the Asian women would literally act like you're a disgusting black man if you followed customer service guidelines by asking if they're good or need help with anything, but their white bfs/husbands were cool with you. Sometimes the Asian would try to avoid you altogether. But the funny part is that Asian women with Asian bfs/husbands don't ever really act like that, and they're happy to speak to you. It's only the Asians who are proud of having a white mate that are appalling like that.
So yes. When you're loving another race that badly and putting them on a pedestal to a point of showing disgust for others - and then basically saying how lowly blacks are as you already demonstrated - it is terribly wrong, yeah. - +1 y
@ManOnFire I believe you. I have witnessed it myself here, and It really annoys me because I feel like it is so wrong for anyone to put one race above the others. One Chinese man, who is my sister’s close friend told her that many Chinese women who got married to Chinese men or another Asian, demand for a maid or nanny to look after their kids but when they are married to a white man (even if the guy is rich), they cook and do chores at home. I have another crazy story about my co-worker who is also a Chinese. She got love scammed twice through the internet and lost 10,000 bucks by a Nigerian scammer who used fake photos of a good looking white man who claimed he wanted to “marry” her. Another one got scammed in a way that she flew to UK to see that “white man”, just to find out that he didn’t even show up when she arrived in London.
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@ManOnFire @desidoll
Dont guilt trip Asian women for being attracted to white men. I date white guys because we think theyre hot. And im sure many other Asian women think theyre attractive too. I dont see whites as superior in any way.
there's a lot of racist hatred that Asians get in the media. I grew up being bullied for things like being good at math, being mocked for false stereotypes such as Chinese people eat dogs, or that all Asian parents force their kids to become doctors, constant mocking of the chinese accent.
Now you're attempting to make fun of Asians by saying all of us see whites as gods because the TINY percentage of us see whites as "superior". Its quite obvious that nobody has anything POSITIVE to say about us except to announce everything about us that are negative.
So what if Asians think the white race is superior? You people are very the same assholes who think white skin is more attractive than dark skin. How many African American celebrities are idolized for their beauty in American media? NONE.
I find white men attractive and im not gonna let your racist stereotypes about me deter my attraction. - +1 y
@ManOnFire
You want to falsely accused me of seeing white men as gods?
I can also accuse you of robbing the bank last night.
Actually the tiny number of Asians seeing whites as gods dont even come close to the number of black people who commit crime. - +1 y
@ManOnFire
I"m sure you're a racist too. - +1 y
@ManOnFire
But i definitely know im not a racist. - +1 y
@ManOnFire
you can't just accuse other people for being racist , just because they're not attracted to you.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI'd say I personally tend to. I mean people prefer different physical traits, and people from different parts of the world often have different physical traits. It's no different than some hot Brazilian hunk going by a girl. It's often more about the traits than the actual demographic identity itself. It's just that that demographic group more consistently has those traits.
So at this point I'm going to get right to the point as I get tired of dancing around it sometimes. So from a purely physical perspective:
1. East Asian countries have the lowest obesity rates in the world. The same goes for Americans with history from this region. What is often called an "unrealistic, unachievable body type" here in the US is the norm in East Asia.
2. Their body fat distribution is different than the west. It tends to be more evenly distributed, compared to other parts of the world where it all goes to the boobs and butt. As a general, but let's face it, obvious trend, black guys seem to be really into the huge boobs, huge butt, tiny waist look. White guys generally less so. Me least so. The average cup size in the US is a D cup. In East Asia, it's an A cup.
3. East Asians have some of the prettiest eyes in the world. Often the perfect "smile eyes".
4. Whether it be some combination of diet or genetics, East Asian girls look consistently younger. Yes, this is a thing and I believe it is due to #2. East Asians over-estimate our ages the same way we under-estimate their ages.
None of these things are unique to East Asia, and exceptions exist in Asia. So it would be an oversimplification to say it's all about "Asian Girls". Just that these things exist in abundance in East Asia and in those with East-Asian ancestry. So saying it's "Asian girls" is just easier to say. But it isn't their "Asian-ness" that is specifically the attractive part. It just so happens to be the case that nearly all of my favorite physical traits exist in abundance there.
If you're about to ask "But what about personality?", I'm not about to associate specific behaviors to an entire racial identity, and East Asian cultures differ from each other in a lot of key ways that aren't as obvious to outsiders. And then we need to remember that we should be viewing Asian-American culture as a subset of American culture first and foremost, as Asian-Americans are just as American as, say, German-Americans or British-Americans. So physical morphological differences are the only ones I can really attribute to race. And there's actually an interesting story behind some of those differences.
10 ReplyYellow fever? but it mostly the other way around, Asian women are obsessed with whiteness.
https://edition.cnn.com/2013/06/25/health/asian-beauty/index.html
https://weta.org/watch/shows/independent-lens/independent-lens-do-asian-women-have-white-fever
00 ReplyYes. We, for the most part, have a thing for Asian women indeed and all studies about racial dating preferences show it: most white men who have a preference prefer Asian women to all others/ most white men appreciate Asian women's beauty.
However, with every rule there are exceptions of course, so white men who are into polyamorous or non-traditional relationships and some white supremacists (some, because I've heard even among them there are guys who date Asian women or at least would like to do so) tend to be only into white women. In any case, they're not the best white men.
From my experience, successful white men and college guys tend to like Asian women the most.
Asian women are even more appreciated by men than people think. Watch this video, it's funny and exemplify what I'm saying.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/A-YcBYUfgtc00 ReplyThere is the whole stereotype of the older white Eurpoean man finding a bride in Thailand to marry in his home country, which is just exploitative. As for my personal preference, I don't really have one. That being said, my first high school crush was a classmate who was Thai.
10 ReplyNope. White men are the least likely group to intermarry based on race. 90% of White men get with White women. Asian women however the the most likely group to intermarry based on race. They tend to pursue White men most often in America.
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+1 yIt is a person's individual preference. Some white men do gravitate towards Asian women, so don't.
00 Reply Personal choice I think for the most part when it comes to tastes.
Erm maybe it could be a cultural thing as well from the perspective.
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+1 yYes, I like Asian girls because I'm attractive to them and love their sweet soft voice
00 ReplyI’m married to a beautiful Chinese girl ❤️👍🙂
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yAs a white guy I don't have a thing for Asian girls, and I don't understand why any other white dude would, I prefer my white women.
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Opinion Owner+1 ySome politically incorrect studies that are typically left out.

Opinion Owner+1 yI know for a fact that's liberal race mixing propaganda the moment I saw the logo of that video's channel. They're promoting race mixing everywhere which is why mixed couples are in commercials everywhere, you have got to be pretty gullible to buy what that cheap video says.
Middle eastern women being successful who are they fooling? It's so rare to find an attractive middle eastern girl.- +1 y
That was a data research study that was done in 2013.
I think middle eastern women are one of the most gorgeous groups of women. Even more beautiful than Asians.
I have a feeling you're just a conservative white racist (likely from the suburbs or rural parts of the US).
Nobody can ever beat the white man / woman right?
Opinion Owner+1 yI've only seen 3 attractive middle eastern women in my life, granted they were very attractive, but it was because they had European facial features.
White people are the most attractive on average, yes.
Opinion Owner+1 yAnd how do I know they're not rigging the results to promote a race mixing agenda, when they're pushing it all over the media. I would like to know the political affiliation of those sites, studies or whoever funds them.
White women are better looking than Asian girls on every feature on average, eyes, noses, skin, hair, lips, faces etc and they have healthier looking bodies on average.
Here's some Gag studies.
Do YOU have a racial preference? ↗
Which race preferences do you have? ↗
Guys, What Race Of Women Do You Prefer? ↗- +1 y
GAG doesn't count because it does not span a big enough population.
Understand that in GAG you can only poll about 20-40 people at once.
In the study that I showed, it was over a million people.
there's no way 20-40 people can represent an entire population
Of course the bigger the study , the more accurate it is.
Opinion Owner+1 yAnd do the most attractive white girls tend/need to use dating sites in general? another possible factor.
Opinion Owner+1 yOh I'm just good at debating people like you.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kalergi_Plan
Opinion Owner+1 yI can confidently say that I'm right, can you say the same about your views? White women are more attractive than skinny Asian girls who have inferior facial features and I think you know that I'm right even though you don't want to admit it.
Opinion Owner+1 yOh yeah, dating apps that have years where white women were on top, which is not ''politically correct''. Now they want to push a race mixing agenda, of course they are not going to show results where white women are on top.
Like I said, what makes you think the most attractive white women use dating websites? Everyone know any white guy that goes with an Asian girl is dating down.
Let's look at some more Gag polls throughout the years and let's keep adding them up.
Which race do you prefer most when dating? ↗
Which race do you prefer for dating? ↗
Which race do you prefer/ find attractive more when it comes down to dating him/her? And why? ↗
Men, in your own opinion (only opinions, no put downs of other races/ethnic groups of women) which of the main 4 ethnic group of women? ↗- +1 y
[Oh yeah, dating apps that have years where white women were on top, which is not ''politically correct''. Now they want to push a race mixing agenda, of course they are not going to show results where white women are on top.]
I think its important to focus more on the data and numbers rather than your own personal biased ideologies
Opinion Owner+1 yYour ''million'' person study result is rigged and you know it. Why not add more millions to this study? The vast majority of white people marry and have kids with other white people.
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@Opinion Owner
The study also said that people who dated outside their race did so 1.5 times more than those who don't.
It did not mean that most people dated out of their race. Most people date within their own race.
You have no proof that my study was rigged at all. Its from a very reputable popular company.
The only person who is "rigged" is you.
Opinion Owner+1 yShow me the political affiliation of the organization, website and whoever funded this study, this race mixing agenda is laughable.
Opinion Owner+1 yYeah I know for a fact that's not true.
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Opinion Owner+1 yI've been giving you a bunch of polls, where the other races are left in the dust, poll after poll. I've shown dating study data where white women come out on top. Asian girls are inferior in terms of looks to white women in every feature on average/general, and most middle eastern women are ugly and hairy. Your ''studies'' can fool other gullible people, you won't fool me.
Women tend to be more liberal than men are as they are more prone to be susceptible to being influenced by liberal propaganda. You're a prime example of this.
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White Men and Asian Women Have the Highest Response Rates
www.datingadvice.com/.../online-dating-race-statistics
Most Men Prefer Asian Women, Except Asian Men
www.datingadvice.com/.../online-dating-race-statistics
Opinion Owner+1 yYeah gee I wonder why after backlash from politically incorrect results they started to change the following years, I wonder why that could be? Like I said the most attractive white women don't need to use dating sites, which can always play a factor.
Here's another poll
Which race is most attractive? ↗
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In 2014 data, it shows white men prefer Asian women over white women.
Studies show Asian women are the most popular female group on dating apps.
These studies are conducted by data analysts and researchers, not some random white supremacist over the internet.
I trust real research data from millions of people, not a 20 person poll on GAG. You're just picking the links that support your views while ignoring the rest that dont support your biased views.
Opinion Owner+1 yAnother one
What is your racial preference in dating? ↗
Opinion Owner+1 yLet's start to add up all the real data from the polls I've posted.
Real data not a bunch of politically correct liberal studies that are pushing an obvious race mixing agenda.
Opinion Owner+1 yBack when the world was less worried about ''political correctness''.
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White Men and Asian Women Have the Highest Response Rates
www.datingadvice.com/.../online-dating-race-statistics
Opinion Owner+1 yThe proof is the overwhelming in the representation and promotion of mixed couples in commercials, movies, media etc. There is a clear obvious agenda.
You know for a fact white women are better looking than Asian girls because you're not blind. They have better eyes, better faces, and better bodies etc.
edition.cnn.com/.../index.html
Silly little liberal Asian girl.
Opinion Owner+1 yYeah, keep spouting liberal race mixing propaganda, you will only fool liberals who believe anything a ''study'' or ''expert'' says, you are void of critical thinking and are sheep.
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Opinion Owner+1 yWhite guys: What race are you the most attracted to and why? ↗
Which race of girls is the most attractive? ↗
Why are white women winning all these polls?
Opinion Owner+1 yStrange GAG doesn't seem to follow your studies for some reason.
Which race is the best looking in the world? ↗
Guys: Which race of women is the most desirable to you and why? ↗
What’s the most attractive race to you? ↗- +1 y
Odds Favor White Men, Asian Women On Dating App
www.npr.org/.../are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women
Opinion Owner+1 yStrange that the data liberal NPR is not being followed on GAG, seems that the pattern doesn't match for some reason. Why are white women winning almost every single poll? Why is the data not matching up?
Opinion Owner+1 yLOL NPR.
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A reputable company Buzzfeed doing a research study of over A MILLION people would be significantly more accurate than some random white supremacist pulling up tiny random polls of 10-20 people each.
No matter how many tiny GAG polls you come up with, you will never come close to meeting the preferences of OVER A MILLION people.
Opinion Owner+1 ySome polls I put have hundreds of votes, lol Buzzfeed, a far left liberal joke site.
Opinion Owner+1 yYour studies literally do not match the poll results of GAG, you would think the studies would match up everywhere if their data was true, doesn't look like it.
Opinion Owner+1 yAnd their results do not match up with people on this site, some ''reputable organization'' LOL.
Opinion Owner+1 yYou should learn to be able to spot propaganda, agendas and know that studies can be manipulated.
Opinion Owner+1 yI've shown that there's a massive likelihood that it is propaganda, keep being brainwashed by the globalist liberal media who are blatantly want white people to have mixed kids so that less people vote Conservative, because demographics matter when it comes to elections in white countries.
Opinion Owner+1 yGAG results are my biases showing lol.
Opinion Owner+1 yYour sources are liberal propaganda that push race mixing agendas. You call Cnn ''fake news'' which it is mostly, but it isn't considered fake news by liberals, but you go on to use liberal NPR and Buzzfeed, BUZZFEED LMAO, Buzzfeed are so the type to push fake studies, this is absolutely laughable. If you think Buzzfeed are a good source this discussion is over.
Your sources are liberal sites which shows the studies will definitely have a bias towards race mixing. Liberals with their lying rigged studies pushed by their lying liberal media and press.
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yi did until i had sex with a few. fixed that.
00 ReplyIt goes both ways, but yes.
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+1 yYes some do and some fetishize it.
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I don't have a preference, I just like women. But at what point does a preference become a 'shameful' fetish? Seems pretty arbitrary to me.
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I believe it is ok to have a preference towards a certain race it’s ok and normal. But race being fetishized by someone to the point that they are only acknowledging and fixating on that persons race, making it the only part they consider is bad. They do not take into account that persons opinions or personality because their only perception of them is based of harmful stereotypes.
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its pretty sickening how some people call an attraction to a certain race as a "fetish". I'm attracted to how handsome white guys are, it doesn't mean its a fetish. Different people are attracted to different things. If you're attracted to tall guys, then would it make sense for me to say that you have a tall guy fetish?
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Yes ma’am which why I said it’s normal until the individual is seen as nothing but a stereotype or anything out side of their race.
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@missroxierocks Yes, exactly.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI like women like you.
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+1 yEveryone has a thing for Asian women
00 Replyi just love Asian women's vaginas
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+1 yyeap a very big thing
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