Girls, Aged between 21 and 33 (who dont already have children) would you date and potentially marry a man with a kid/s?

[Motheman]

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+1 y

He doesn't have them full time?

[Little_Bumblebee]

I wouldn't.

I'm not even sure I want kids of my own. Least of all do I want him to have kids from a previous relationship.
It complicates everything, and a relationship can be pretty difficult to begin with, without all of that.

[Motheman]

If the mother has the kids but he sees them once a week on set days or something. So its not like you're replacing the mum

[Little_Bumblebee]

No, I wouldn't be able to do that either.
Maybe that would change for me in 10 years or if I got a kid myself. But right now, it's a no.
It could even be something I could be jealous of as well.

[Motheman]

Fair enough. Very helpful answer. Would your answer be different if he wasn't average joe but he had his life in order earning, lets just say 10 grand a week. He was handsome had a great personality and kept his body in shape. He was well dressed and interesting.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Hard to say. But I'm most likely not interested in a rich dude, feel like it's someone from a whole other world.
Chemistry and the connection is what's most important to me, so I won't say it's never gonna happen, but, it's a pretty big no go.
Just like I don't want to date someone that smokes.

[Motheman]

Fair play so its not a 100% impossibility but you have a firm boundary at the same time

[Little_Bumblebee]

Yeah.
It would probably also depend on the age of the kid. The reason he's not with the mom anymore, how long ago they broke it off. The relationship with the mom.
And whether the little crotch goblin is well-behaved etc or not.
These factors would also be considered

[Motheman]

So not a total no but you have a lot to consider if the situation arose where you were potentially gonna be dating a dude with kids

[Little_Bumblebee]

Again, it would depend on a lot. It's easier to say it's a no go overall.
If he's a great guy I get a long with and care for, of course I would consider it. Though the chances are slim.

[kylee2437]

Depends on if he brings to the table or what I want my relationship to consist of

[fonduegirl]

Nope. Motherhood isn't for me, and I can't do that to his kids, they deserve better.

[LazerBean]

Not at all.

[Anonymous]

No lol