Do you think that holding your love you have someone is a bad thing?

[kitty71]

or those things are kept secret in order to avoid come criticism in the case that love may actually be not real love or won't work out and it is just for show?

For example Hollywood couples regarldess ttey are from the same business or not related to entertainment.

Lets say a X celeb had been dating a certain lady (also an actress) for like 4 years, but they never went fully public and when the public noticed they were dating, it was for one photo leaked to the media of the 2 of them togetehr holdings hands in some country many months after they already started dating. From there the media started to follow them more often cause there was proof already they were a couple. The actor never was on any social media accounts, the actress was on one social media account. So since the media and the public already knew they were a couple, paparazzis started to follow them everywhere, taking photos of them running errands here and there for quite some time, but in any of those photos the couple seem like they were happy or glad being to one another, they were never seen holdings hands even walking down the street as a couple or or hugging each other.

I dont know if that was due to "well now the public know we are a couple already" lets pretend we are not happy for the papz. So my question is even if you are in the public eye and scrutinized for everything that you do or dont do, do you think if you really love someone by heart and with your soul, is it bad to express that love to the people? I mean who cares what people think, it is not our problem anyway. Why hide your emotions from the public

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that bad? Do these people feel embarrased people see they are happy? I mean if you ask me they are seen doing something really bad in publici is a different thing, but when a thing is positive what is the harm?

When this couple broke up at the beginning of this year and they had 4 yyrs dating (never got married but they are not young they are in their late 30`s and early 40`s), people they also manage to hide it pretty well, cause the news went public in March of this year announcing their

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break-up but it seems they were alreayd separated months before and not living together anymore.

[SnowedIn]

This is an interesting question. But before I write an answer, is your general question for celebrities or of regular folks too?

[kitty71]

It could apply to both and you can answre for both cases if there is a difference

[SnowedIn]

I get it. So, I think I'm on both sides for this, at least for the very famous. Is hiding your love a bad thing? Bad might be too strong of a word. But it's not great. It's not good to hold such powerful feelings. BUT... the paparazzi are terrible. I can actually see hiding that in order to try to have some semblance of a normal life.

I worked for a gentleman once who was a very well known leader. Was talking with his wife one day who told me frankly that she wished she could just put on her sweatpants and go to the grocery store without makeup. I can see the same sort of thing regarding a relationship.

Maybe something similar for non-celebrity folks, but I'm just not sure what their motivation would be but again I wouldn't call it bad.

[pizzalovershouse]

Mot if you both are comfortable with it

[User3191989]

nope