Should I give up on dating?

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Is it wrong for me to even try find love tbh I suck at love, I can cook, clean, and about everything else BUT LOVE. I always get shamed for being myself, or they are shame of me because I'm fat I lost tons of weight since my last break up, but I don't feel no different or anything othen than feeling like a doll. No good for a sugar daddy because well I'm fat.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Go on a plant-based diet. You can start with a green smoothie cleanse. I lost 26 lbs in a month when I did a cleanse last year.

I am sexy now because I stopped eating processed meat and went fall plant-based. Just wild-caught fish once or twice a month.

Here's a video of how to do a cleanse.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ie0POIJ8VgI

Alex8736 · Accepted Answer

What others think is irrelevant and not worth your time. At the end of the day being yourself (and honest to yourself) will get you ahead in life where being honest you don't have to stop and think when someone asks you a question Keep your head up

Blackcupcake · Accepted Answer

why don’t you try to lose more weight if you feel like that’s what’s holding you back?

Anonymous · Answer

Ok. So being fat has a-lot less to do with being worthy of a relationship then people think.. Plenty of guys. Myself among them, actually prefer fat women. What is important is confidence (not to be confused with cockiness) guys like a woman that is confident, comfortable with who they are, etc.

There are entire online communities for plus size women and the guys (and gals and non binary’s, etc) that love them.

On thing I will recommend is remove “sugar daddy” from your ideas. That will decrease any womans dating options dramatically. Regardless of weight/looks. That sort of thing is not so common anymore. Especially in this economy.

YourFavoriteFriend · Answer

No! Don't give up on dating and life! Lose your excess weight (but don't over do it), learn to cook in a basic level, learn how to clean and be fully independent and learn what guys like and how to be more cute and feminine. Good luck!

Paul09 · Answer

Focus more on you. Keep learning, keep improving yourself. Then maybe while doing that you'll connect with someone. If not that's fine at least you be happy and a better version of yourself.

exitseven · Answer

maybe take a step back for a while and thinking about what you want.

Guy13 · Answer

You are tall as well?

Staximus · Answer

Are you saying you can't love people? Like you are not able to show or give love? I need some clarification here

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