Should I give up on dating?

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I’ve online dated a lot. No girl I liked had ever ‘fought over’ me. While they were ignoring my messages they were just simping over the really hot white guy that didn’t give her attention. I’ve seen their dms vs mine. If you’re a perfect looking white guy, you can not message them and they are begging for your attention.

Girls are all the same, they all suck. I never get the ones I want. None of them deserve me how about that, I’m going to go far in life. They don’t deserve what I could bring. I hate them all. I’m bitter

I’ve been on the apps for fkin years. Even paid money here there. I give up. There’s also nothing more I can do to work on myself. It’s over

I’m 25. I’ve had enough experience I feel

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I would say give up dating because your mindset is wrong. "None of them deserve me..." is a statement of pride. If no one besides you can see that you´re not that great. The problem isn´t girls the problem is that you don´t know how to date. Stop dating and think again about your technique your wishes and what´s your goal.
I´ve been in the same situation. I´ve paid money too and thought I´m great but guess what none of the girls saw because I focused on things they weren´t interested in. I also advertised myself with being the guy that doesn´t want sex right away which sounds good but I had nothing else to offer.
You sound a bit like me in the past. Interestingly enough I´ve let my sister make me a dating problem on Bumble and I have more conversations since then.

PeterLegg91 · Accepted Answer

Your 25 man your still young you got plenty time date and find love

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

Yeah you defo should give up at this point. That would at least end the need to have a dozen accounts a day here to complain about it. You think you are so special that you should get any girl that you want regardless of what she thinks of you. They should just get with you because you are you. That is the tone of what you just wrote. Then you say that we all suck because you don't get what you want. Have you ever thought of the reverse being true? At least you told one truth this time which is that you are bitter. So yeah I think you should give up. Your blood pressure will go down and you will live a happier life not having to worry, shout or be bitter about it.

laly520 · Accepted Answer

with such mentality u won't ever be happy even if not dating anyone

LazerBean · Answer

great idea

tierrlamé · Answer

stop online dating. Its not real. You need to go out and meet people

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Give up on Online dating and go out there and meet people.

At3mis24 · Answer

This is the kind of words the Incels utter...

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