For long term relationship and marriage I'd honestly prefer someone who's like me, i. e., introvert and nerdy. But I do want to experience what's life like on the other size, on extroverted side. But it looks like these tall athletic guys only date extrovert girls.
I'm not shy, ugly or awkward, just nerdy and introverted.
Do athletic guys ever consider dating nerdy girls? Or should I give up completely? Just for short term dating, not marriage and stuff?
There are plenty of tall, athletic, intelligent, nerdy guys. There are even more if you aren’t so picky about their height. I work with some of them. I have a friend that is a competitive sailor, very smart, exceptionally well-read. He’s married, but there are plenty more. If that’s your type, move to the US west coast where there is a surplus of them. If that’s your type, consider Seattle.
Social skills are learned. Quit making excuses. And the NUMBER ONE thing guys look for in a girl is HER level of attraction and desire for HIM. What you THINK you are is nearly irrelevant.
And you have to DATE to get to know someone. Prejudging them based on what YOU think they are or should be is a complete folly.
Things have changed a surprising amount since my time at your age, given that it hasn't actually been that long, but I imagine some parts are pretty universal. If it's something casual and intended for fun, standards are usually lower than for those who go out looking to marry, say. And assuming that's you, I doubt you're going to have any trouble on the physique front.
But if you're looking at a guy who's into more athletic stuff while you yourself are not, he's not likely to even encounter you all that often, especially if you're an introverted nerd (I speak from experience as an introverted nerd myself here). If there's one in particular you have your eye on, and he keeps a consistent schedule, arranging to be where he'll be could give you a chance for conversation, to get to know him a bit better and either judge if he's interested or even make a move yourself.
You're asking if these guys would go full friends with benefits with you. I'd guess if you tell them from the start you only want short term you may be killing your own chances of finding happiness.
Assuming it's you in the picture, you've got a good figure. Believe it or not (and even a lot of guys don't) guys don't look for someone short term. We're drawn to women who have beautiful eyes. There's no reason you can't find a good guy. Don't limit yourself by deciding before you even met him that the guy is only good for "short term" dating.
Why would you bother with 'athletic guys' - and 'just dating' (i. e. ruining your life by casual sex)? I am a nerd, introvert, first of all - also quite athletic/was always good in sports (but never had the time to be a champion in any, just very good in gymnastics, k8ckboxing, skiing, swimming) It isn't like being a bozo with muscles is in any way superior - they are generally shallow angry people seeking attention (testosterone from too much exercise makes you an angry asshole, essentially, that's why karate and yoga where resistance training is not required make calmer more balanced people)
Well you got a great body why not just add some fun and find mr. right without expectation. Because once you build expectation from a date you already made end to it before it even began. So give guys a try no matter their size, looks, wallet or nerdyness. Try it for 30 days see if you meet a lot of different guys without first thinking about, is he my type?
That's Me all the time ❤️ personally Id love a smart nerdy girl to cuddle with. The introvertedness is what makes them cute honestly, especially if I see her holding a book or doing anything nerdy. I'll just loose it and go crazy. I have a lean athletic build but honestly Id choose the introvert nerdy girl 😍
If you're asking if they will hook up with you the answer is yes. If you're asking if they'll whisk you around to parties and shine popularity on you introducing you everywhere as their girlfriend... probably not unless you can look the part.
Nerdy and athletic are definitely not mutually exclusive. I coach distance runners, and a lot of them are both nerdy and athletic. That's not limited to running either.
You just need to focus on coming out of your shell, even its just a little bit at a time. I use to be very introverted, but the internet has helped me a lot.
>Just for short term dating, not marriage and stuff What exactly is the point of dating if you don't want it to be a long-term relationship from the start.
you may want to consider becoming a nun 😛😂 you can find an athletic guy that likes more of a nerdy, introvert girl 🤷♂️ i’d prefer that over the super party girl
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