Guys, would you date a woman who has a child/children but they don'tl live with her?

[Anonymous]

So often times it's the guys who don't have their child/children full time, but there are also women out there who have child/ren that do not live with them. Would this be a deal breaker for you? Like if you are a guy who already has kids would this change your mind about the relationship with said woman? I'm genuinely curious as a friend of mine got dumped by a guy because her kids don't live with her and she only gets to see them once a month, only reason is because she was a very young mother and her family decided to raise them. Would appreciate opinions.

[DaveJord]

Yes, I would date a woman that has kids that do not live with her. Actually, it's a bonus to me. I have a hard time dating women with kids, because I do not like getting involve with other people's children until I am 100% certain I am to this relationship for the right reasons. 90% of dating relationships fail, so I do not want to mess with anyone kids.

Issue is it's hard to figure out with someone when they work and have kids, because she does not have a lot of time to split with me, and then over time she starts to feel guilty because of the time she is missing with her kids when she is with me.

So, this guy... well again for me, I don't what kids. I have my own and they are grown. But if he did want kids, all I can do is guess is that her not having her kids with her full time is some type of indicator to him or red flag?

Truth is he is probably not seriously interested in her and is looking for an excuse to get out of the relationship.

[Anonymous]

If she made the effort and proved she wasn't most single moms. Single moms are typically a bad investment.

[Brando10222]

I don't mind dating her

[kareka]

Yes why not