I'm just bored of my stupid life, so I decided to be obsessed with this one white, cute, not overly sexy girl I saw at my community college?
What should I do? She's already rejected me LOL. Not in the same class.
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Trending & News I'm just bored of my stupid life, so I decided to be obsessed with this one white, cute, not overly sexy girl I saw at my community college?
What should I do? She's already rejected me LOL. Not in the same class.
If she has already rejected you, LEAVE HER ALONE! Or you’ll possibly face a restraining order at best, and expulsion from your school, or even stalking charges at worst!
why? am i supposed to be dangerous or something?
@trillionaire123 That doesn't matter, in fact this isn’t about you at all! You said that she rejected you, you also said that you were obsessed with her. If she has already told you that she is not interested in you, that’’s is the story is over! You asked, she said no, now you leave her alone so that she can get her education without worrying every day “oh god, what if I run into that guy again”! As a woman, I can tell you that once I’ve told a guy that I wasn’t interested in him, if he keeps on making passes at me, or keeps asking me out, it’s fucking terrifying! Let’s say that you are just a really great, sweet guy who just wants to find love…. If that’s the case, why would you want to upset a girl just because she isn't interested in you? Look, you asked this question, sweetie. I can only assume that you actually wanted answers. So when a woman answers you, and tells you that you need to leave her alone, why would you even go to that place where you’re asking me “Why? Am I supposed to be dangerous or something?” When you ask someone out and they tell you they are not interested by saying no, that’s it! You leave her alone and never ask her out again… because THAT is something that a guy who isn’t dangerous would do.
what's so scary about a person? I don't get you women.
if a woman i rejected was still talking to me, i'd be fine.
@trillionaire123 There’s nothing uniquely scary about a “person“ but if that person asks you out and you say no, and they are still pursuing you and keep asking you out… Then YES, that can be frightening, especially if he describes himself as “obsessed“ about her! And the reason it is frightening is because you’re demonstrating that you are a man who does not take NO for an answer, and I don’t think I need to describe in detail why a woman MIGHT be afraid of a man who does not take no for an answer !
i'm just lonely and bored and I like her aurora, her voice, her nice jacket, her short legs and giggly nature. She looks cool.
Why are women taught to fear men? It's just a person.
Frankly, I genuinely feel this person is cute. i like cute clean girls who aren't "sexy".
I ain't Voldemort.
WHY? Because SOME men get obsessed and they don’t take NO for an answer! That is why women are taught to fear men who don’t take no for an answer, or fear men who are walking WAY too close behind is on the street at night, or hanging around by the women’s bathroom door late at night, we are taught to be afraid of these things, because they are all SIGNS that this guy MIGHT be one of the dangerous ones! Can you tell me?
Why are you can’t just admire her from a far? Give her a little glance when she’s walking past in the lunchroom or something maybe if you backed off and stopped acting like a guy who MIGHT be dangerous she MIGHT change her mind and go out with you. ?
If she rejected you, just leave it alone. Your life can get better. But you need to graduate. Having sexual harassment charges will not help your life get any better. Just let it go for now.
im just bored, and I think that her aura, her voice, her cute white face, her listening to music, is just... dunno interesting...
You can try and be friends. Don't ruin your future or anything. You can get into a good inverts way university for your bachelor's or masers and there will be cuter looking white girls there.
LOL i wish she was better at math, than she might be in the same class as me LOL.
i just wonder what songs she listens to, what she does at home LOL.
I know how you feel. I wish sexual liberation and feminism never happened for women. Now they just reject men left and right.
But unfortunately, she said no and now you have to move on.
What do you mean? 100 years ago women rejected men they didn't like, and men rejected women they didn't like as well.
The thing is, I actually have an "emotional" desire for her: her aurara has a "cute" feel to it, not "sexy".
like i wouldn't care if she was asexual, her aurara/persona is cute to me.
also she has a fat, ugly friend, she clearly doesn't help. LOL
Roadway or path towards Shel Silverstein amazing book
Just keeping going forward in life, there will be others that may come your way
but im bored of this dumb existence, and her aurara, her voice, is just... cute
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