How can I find a girl?

[Anonymous]

Dating apps never worked.

I work online. So i have nowhere to go in real life.

[JHNS98]

Not to be too defeatist, but you barely can... The rhetoric/discourse online, as well as studies like the one referenced here, don't help either.

I have a very consequent experience with rejection, which has led me to a defeatist attitude reinforced by online content.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Do something else. And working online doesn't mean you have nowhere else to go because you aren't usually supposed to date your colleagues (don't shit where you eat). Just do something in your spare time that makes you have to talk to a bunch of new people.

[Asker]

Where should i go? Which place is the best for this?

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I gotta admit I found too many from bars. Mind you, less girls than friends. But it's like I go to bar, make a friend, friend invites me to a barbecue or picnic, meet more friends, those friends invite me someplace, then I get close to a girl there.

But maybe if that's not your thing, social clubs also work. Like if you are a super nerd, maybe a book club or something. You can read some shit and say what you feel about it. That usually wasn't for me but there's probably some sort of social club for everybody.

[aaron210419]

There are more women on Earth than there are men, get out and get rejected in real life (JK but rejection is a part of life).