Do you think people with Autism should date?

[Anonymous]

And if they should, do you think they should stay away from neurotypical people? Like should they only date other Autistic people? They would most likely be a liability and a headache on neurotypical people.

[NamerOfStars]

Do you really think that allists don't have problems of their own? NOBODY is perfect. Yes, autism brings it own challenges, especially to the world of dating; I can completely understand those who say it's not worth the trouble and bow out, but autists are (generalizing, of course) honest and loyal to a fault, enthusiastic about their interests and eager to share them (sometimes too eager, but still), and quite concerned with the feelings of others, despite the troubles they may have recognizing or understand them.

[boggboss]

They should and can date whoever they want u don't have to be autistic to be able to be patient with someone who has it lol its a ridicules question

[ArrowheadSW]

It just depends on those involved. Someone who is "on the spectrum" might need some coaching as to how to respond in certain situations involving dating, etc. I think it could work either way, with dating those on the spectrum or those who are neurotypical. I dated a lady about 5 years ago who I would say was "on the spectrum". It was definitely a bit of a challenge and eventually it didn't work out. But like any dating situation, it just depends. Most relationships don't work out anyway eventually.

My friend is married to a lady who is on the spectrum, although I don't think either one realizes it. They have some difficult times, but probably no more than others.

[kespethdude]

Absolutely you should date (it'd be ableist to say not to, and ableism is as bad as racism). I'd be careful with neurotypicals (N), but not all are bad. Not all autistic (A) people are good or bad either. It's always the individual, autistic or not, that differs. While A/A pairs tend to work best, it's not always the case. A/N pairs can work too if the N is understanding and kind enough. Again, in all cases, depends on the individual.

Sorry if this isn't helpful as it's quite complicated, I don't even understand it that well lol. And yes, I am an A.

[MCheetah]

Yeah, I guess. They can date other autists. Chris Chan showed the world what happens when you try to put autists with "normal people." It ain't pretty!

[Julie_TS]

Horrible question & insinuations.

[Anonymous]

Yes, and they shouldn't limit themselves to divergents.