Co worker says he finds me hot?

[Fzrz6455]

But will never date me because we work together but he always sayz we are team i support you and you are my favorite. But I don't know i feel like its an eccuse in our company its normal to date around its not really formal.

[connemara_crocodile]

He's clearly looking for sex without commitment. A guy won't tell you you're hot without expecting something from it.

He won't say it cause if he does he's a dickhead, but if any situation was to lead to it or you would suggest it he can say after sex "I told you I don't want anything serious".

So my opinion is that he wants you as a fuckbuddy.

[Fzrz6455]

I asked him he said no i dont want sex , u are my co worker

[DoctorSex]

Any guy who calls you 'hot' without pursuiting you, has someone else more desirable he's working on and doesn't want to mess it up, but he now knows you like him and will keep you on the back burner for drunken work Christmas parties.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Fzrz6455]

He called me beauriful too

[DoctorSex]

Surely you can't be that easy? My dear, get ahold of yourself. You come across as the prime target for abusers.

[Fzrz6455]

So ur saying he us lyibg

[DoctorSex]

I don't know him to say whether he is lying or not. I'm going off what you've told me and I'll listening for behaviours. One thing I know very well is human behaviour as a qualified psychotherapists.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[DoctorSex]

*I'm listening

[lalaloveee]

rule #1: don't have sex with your co-workers.

[Anonymous]

I agree with him and its not an excuse.

[Opinion Owner]

What if you start dating and then have a nasty breakup?