Men, would you open up about previous relationships, what kind of a relationship you want in the future and discuss your family on the first date?

[Anonymous]

Is this normal first date behaviour?

I've been out with a few men, and we usually have conversations about other things.. not in depth about this stuff. Opinions?

[kylee2437]

So honestly I think first dates should be fun and a basis on getting to know if you like someone surface level wise, but I don’t think it should be a basis to unload your past traumas onto another person. If they ask, that’s cool but I wouldn’t use the first date to open up about stuff you have been through because it gives the person insight that you are stuck on what you been through

[Anonymous]

Maybe if the guy is inexperienced. I was a late bloomer. So when I started taking a more actively role in dating I was woefully unprepared for the judgement that I would get from the vastly more experienced women I would encounter. I learned the hard way not to be completely honest with women. Which was hard, because it's in my nature to be honest.

[Guy13]

Nope. He’s not wasting time and knows the concerns. Sounds like a man to me. 💪

[Danny_dan92]

Only if asked about them