Would you start an open relationship?

[LiliiRose]

Would you start an open relationship to stay with your partner of 5 years, if that's what he wants? I don't think he's willing to stop flirting or texting other women, and I'm sure he wants to sleep with them too. I'm trying to figure out what's reasonable and what boundaries people actually hold. Would you try open, just deal with it, or would you leave? Why? I want him to do what he wants. What he wants hurts me.

[Zack-Bann]

I don’t even like sharing my fork when I eat food


No chance I share my woman


Last girl I was seeing kept insisting she always did open relationships and they work great


I told her no


She insisted


So I ended it


Amicably of course, no need for drama. But I have my boundaries and some things I will never share

[slatyb]

I don't think it's a good idea for you. If he cared for you, he wouldn't press you to do this. I knew one couple -- he wanted an open relationship and she didn't. They are divorced now.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Absolutely not. Tried it and it almost ruined me.

If I'm not given monogamy in a relationship, I'm out.

[jazzy34]

No. I wouldn’t. I would tell him he can have all the women he wants. I just won’t be there. Bye. ✌🏾

[Abbycado]

Nope, not interested in that type of relationship.

[sawno]

Nope, I am to monogamous for that. The only exception I am willing to make is if she's bisexual and wants to bring a girl into our sexlife.

[PeachyPie93]

No.. I'd leave him, clearly he doesn't love you if he doesn't care he is hurting you.

[Nikki1989]

Not that open, no. Threesomes with a girlfriend is totally different.

[MasterKS]

Open relationship should start when you met the person, later on changing cause the problem.

[Zionne]

nope, if he allows that, just find a man who still wants you after couple of years

[Staximus]

Have some self-respect and tell this guy to go piss up a flagpole

[exitseven]

nope. I do not share.

[DishLady]

Nope.

[Beckybooboo]

No, I wouldn't.

[Summeroflove]

Not for me.

[Anonymous]

I'd be gone just for the suggestion.

[Nyctoveilexe]

no

thats not for me

[jahaims]

No, I'm not mentally ill

[dudeinohio]

No way ever. That isn't a relationship

[beefcakebradybatson]

H**L to the NO !!!

[Anonymous]

Nope, probably not.

[Twodogs0525]

Never.

[beenherebefore]

No, I wouldn't.

[wkhan_87]

I can't say anything about it

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not.