What to do when you want to move to your dream city but there’s a girl you’re talking to at work and I don’t want to let her go?

[Anonymous]

I live in a town in NC and I wanna move to Tampa

[RavVid]

Collect some travel brochures on Tampa and leave them on her desk. More seriously how serious is it? I understand you like her but she might not like you back in the same sense of liking. Ask her out is a good place to start then you start knowing where you are.

[sheikalana]

Well, you still seem pretty young and I'm pretty sure you're going to find amazing people in your life. I would not postpone my dreams because of another person at your age.

[Asker]

I’m 32, the age is an error when creating this account

[sheikalana]

We're about the same age. I would only stay if I was in a serious relationship with someone and we had plans to settle down. If not I'd just follow my dreams and goals.