At 28, what is the YOUNGEST I should date?

[Anonymous]

I never had a real girlfriend. I want a woman where we can be each other's first real relationship. I feel the younger I date, the more likely she will meet what I am looking for.

[JamesDiaz11]

The youngest you should date is 18. Ten years is a good age gap for a husband and wife, but anymore than that (at your age) would be a bit weird- and in this point of time illegal. You can find a girl who's not had a relationship before (or had sex, and make sure you question anyone who says they've never had a boyfriend bc these often have had flings, situationship, or one night stands) up to around mid-20's.

You also must know that there is a premium to these girls. A girl who has not gotten into a relationship has usually done so by choice, and they have high standards for the men they want to be with (not in an entitled way, but they just are holding out for more). If you're a 28 year old loser with nothing going for them, and say you start a relationship with an 18-22 year old girl who doesn't know any different- it's only a matter of time before she realizes you're not shi.

If you're actually a man of quality, who has his career, education, finances, and vision together and you get an inexperienced girl, not only will she appreciate you as her first (and hopefully only) partner, as she grows and matures she'll be validated in her choice by how good of a choice you are.

[Asker]

That was very helpful feedback. Thank you.

[Guy13]

21 years old is as young as I would go. It is also dependent upon what one is seeking. If it only a date and have some fun type relationship then 21-23 is good. They need to have at least two years of real life work experience.

If you are mature and not playing around then 25 would be my move. Many at that age are serious as their peers are getting married and their window of opportunity is starting to close. There is a 2-3 year process unto Vows and likely 30 at first child.

[Asker]

I seek a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first real relationship.

[Guy13]

If you are not in a Bible believing and thumping church with a Puritan connection then you are likely not going to meet anyone like that. University Biblical fed organizations like Campus Crusaders might be your only shot.
Your morality is not likely to be found in the culture.

[Twalli]

He's not a virgin, so I bet that won't work for him.

[TacosRAwesome]

At least 18.

Now because I know who you are, women who are 18 and older and never had boyfriends or sex exist and are of all levels of attractiveness but wanting someone who basically never fancied anyone else is weird af and should be worked on.

[Labokachulaa]

At 28, I think the youngest you should be dating is 24/25, because younger than that I would question what I have in common with these person. The age gap is too much, they don't have the same thought process. But, that's my opinion on it.

[Asker]

I seek a woman without a romantic past tho

[Labokachulaa]

That's still possible, but it's more than likely someone you wouldn't look twice at. Lol that's usually how it works.

[Asker]

What do you mean by that? She doesn't have to be a supermodel. She can be average.

[Labokachulaa]

You're thinking based upon appearance, I'm talking about overall.

[Summeroflove]

As long as she isn’t under 18 that’s up to you

[Looksnicholas]

Man, I for one am quite happy for a bachelor lifestyle for me for the rest of my lifetime decades decades decades ahead, and even if I was to start dating now just out of the blue.. believe it or not, I actually for me, wouldn't settle for anyone who wasn't born the same year as me. Preferably even the same star sign or the same part of the year I was born of my year, so technically I guess I'd date a woman who's 28. Get it? Just like me as I'm 28. Soon to be 29 earlier next year.

[Looksnicholas]

And hooray me for never settling for less 😋😋😜✌🏻☮️☮️☮️☮️

[MCheetah]

The unofficial rule for age gaps is "Half your age plus seven" (as long as you're both over 18.) Going by that formula, the youngest you "should" date is 21.

But I think this largely depends on the person. As long as there isn't a 15+ age gap, I think it's okay. But seeing 42-25 year olds date 19-20 year olds, is kinda creepy to me.

[NewYorkCity]

If you are a normal and decent person, 19 should be your limit, but if you are a part of Hollywood SuperStart ""Elite Club"". or you belong to the tippy top music industry artists club or anything in between, you can go as low as you wish.

[CA4444]

I’d say 17/18, I really don’t think girls are mature enough before that, in any way, for a relationship…

[Subarugirl]

Someone in your own age group. Personally, I think 25 is the youngest you should date, that way at least you are on the same level when it comes to cognitive development.

[Asker]

I seek a woman without a romantic past tho

[Subarugirl]

Then I guess you shouldn't have had one of you own. If you want one without a romantic past, then you need to be attractive to that kind of person.
Which means that you need to step up and do some work and become that person, not be looking for barely legals.
As a parent myself I wouldn't let my daughter near someone like you.

[Twalli]

We all know who you are and that you have a bunch of different accounts (or they keep getting banned and you have to make new ones). There's no point going anon.

[Asker]

Lol what gave that away?

[Twalli]

The fact that for over a year you've asked the same question in different ways and most guys are not hung up on the possibility that they might not be the only guy a girl has ever been interested in.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

probably 20 but as long as it's legal is probably acceptable lol so 18?

[Asker]

You being 18, would you date a 28 year old guy? I seek a woman without a romantic past.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

there's plenty of girls who would, i wouldn't mind if I liked the guy.

[Asker]

Have you ever had your first love or a boyfriend before?

[letuswaltzforthedead]

no, haven't. I rather not date unless I'm certain i want to marry or stay long term with the guy.

[Asker]

I am wanting a woman like you so bad you have no idea

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I hope you end up finding a girl then, there's a few out there.

[trina_x]

legally as long as she's 18 its all good

but a lot of people like the half + 7 rule

so like for you it'd be 21 i think

[icedragoom]

I would say look in the age range of three years younger or three years older that way when you are on a date you have something you can relate to

[Anonymous]

At your age and still virgin, you should pretty much give up on dating.

[Asker]

I lost my virginity at age 20 to a 16 year old girl during a weekend fling. She was really just a stranger. I never had an actual girlfriend before.

[Opinion Owner]

Then you can't date a girl without sexual past, you are dirty.

[Asker]

It is not so much about her sexual past as much as whom she shared her HEART with. It is the emotional connections that count

[Opinion Owner]

Bah.

[OddBeMe]

I’ve always adhered to a 3-5 year policy. That usually keeps our personalities similar. But as long as it’s legal, jump on anyone.

[bamesjond0069]

Youngest legal. I mean I was 34 when I started dating my girlfriend who was 18

[Asker]

Really? Nice! Did it work out well?

[bamesjond0069]

We're still together almost 2 years now.

[Avicenna]

Make sure she’s at least 18

[LiamJHayden]

Preferably at least 21 so the places you can go are not restricted.

[NatalieKeller95]

someone who's 22,

[Asker]

I seek a woman without a romantic past tho

[Agape93]

... you think most teenagers don't have a romantic past by 18?

[Asker]

@Agape93
I think I have much greater chance of finding a woman without a romantic past the younger she is.

[RandomGuy1030]

Eighteen or 17 if its legal there

[Anonymous]

Depends. 18 or as low as 16 depending

[Asker]

But would an 18 year old girl want to date a 28 year old guy? Especially if he is just average at best?

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely.

[BJP21]

Anywhere between your age and 18

[Anonymous]

Don't go lower than 18

[joeldalton]

half your age + 7 years.

[Agape93]

18. No younger.

[Asker]

So 18 and 28 dating is fine?

[Agape93]

Yeap.

[Asker]

Are there very many 18 year old women who want to date a 28 year old guy?

[Agape93]

Probably

[AsaKyo]

22 or 23

[Asker]

I seek a woman without a romantic past tho. Wouldn't I have better luck with a woman younger than that?

[msc545]

Eighteen

[Asker]

Do you think I can find a woman who is 18 and doesn't have a romantic past?

[msc545]

Maybe you can although it seems unlikely - women start young these days. Even if you do find such a person, don't expect that in the future she will only have sex with you - people get curious and they act on it. You might be her first lover but you will not be the last.

[Stevefiveo]

Eighteen.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

18 duh

[Anonymous]

28 makes sense

[Anonymous]

Eighteen.