Why are Asian women mad all the time?

[Anonymous]

I’m black and my husband is Chinese and I noticed Asian women are rude and mean to me. Is it jealousy or are the just like this? I get along so well with Asian men yet I can’t find a connection with Asian women. Is it common in their culture?

[RavVid]

I suspect Asians can be ethno-centric but it could be language derived. Chinese (it seems to me) is a pretty direct language. If spoken correctly English is a brutally frank language but we soften it by using colloquialisms.

Watched a program on Dutch which posed the question why Sorry wasn't used in the Nederlands. The answer came out that 'we say what we mean so why we would we apologize for that' . They contrasted Dutch with English where someone might in business say 'That's an interesting concept' meaning 'That is total crap'. A dutch person would directly say 'That is total crap'.

Turns out there is a sorry word in Dutch but it isn't used often.

Just some thoughts. Are they nice to you when your husband is present? What does he think?

[andreasderjuengere]

I believe to have noticed that many Asians around 'here' feel reservations towards people of the chocolate human phenotype

(I use this term to express my affinity for chocolate :) )

But being rude about it is not a typical Asian trait.

Is it possible that you experience a 'cultural shock'? - the way ''we'' interpret rudeness is different between cultures.

[kylee2437]

Maybe it’s just in your head because you are intimidated why Asian women, you automatically sabotage any kind of friendship / friendliness to them

[jennifer_bloom]

Cartoon culture or sushi culture? These girls might be mad your eating their sushi.

[Asker]

I don’t understand

[Summeroflove]

It’s not all of them. But some definitely have a shorter temper “you pay 7 dollar for that, no change”

[blackgaletiger]

This is why

[zagor]

That hasn't been my experience at all. Maybe they just don't like seeing you with an Asian guy.

[Asker]

That’s weird because they date white and black men all the time

[Anzyy]

I've been in a situation like this being a brown Male. I think it's common in the older ones and the younger ones are much more open