How can a girl say she has no physical connection with you but yet be indecisive about breaking up?

[Anonymous]

Like I’m so confused

[AmandaYVR]

"she said thinking about me made her wet"

"a girl say she has no physical connection with you"

Yeah, these two things definitely contradict.

Maybe she said the "no physical connection" thing one day, but it's not actually exemplary of how she feels about you. Is she sort of clunky with her words? People blurt out things sometimes. She could have also been mad or irritated about something else, and consciously or subconsciously wanted to hurt you a bit.

She might have a pretty strong sex drive, and that is clouding her thinking. She gets turned on, but when she's back to her senses, she doesn't feel emotionally connected, but she doesn't have the capability to say that or explain that properly. Or, she's avoiding saying that because she doesn't want to be direct and honest (many people are like this, especially girls are indirect, but most people don't want to hurt the other person by saying they aren't feeling the personality.)

If you're questioning whether she wants to be with you, stop having sex, and see what happens. Does everything fizzle? Then you don't have the emotional connection, or align in personality. You're just delaying the inevitable.

[Username28]

I mean. I had 1000% physical connection but the emotional connection 0%. It was a very toxic relationship 😳🤦‍♀️


I guess I kinda get it, that emotional attraction might be real af. If she’s not physically and emotionally attracted you’ll both be unhappy.

[aaron210419]

She's weighing her options, possibly even actively looking for someone else. I'd try to have a serious and honest discussion about where your relationship is heading, don't accuse her of anything you have no proof of.

[boggboss]

Yes because she might nit be with you for your looks

[Asker]

Ok but physical connection goes hand in hand with turning someone on and she has gotten wet thinking about me

[boggboss]

People can get wet from rape its not a indercation that they like you

[Asker]

Ok so she said thinking about me made her wet

[Asker]

Also when I would flirt and talk sexual to her she said it made her wet

[boggboss]

If she is telling you she has no physical attraction do u not thing that might mean she lied to you about getting wet thinking about u

[Asker]

She was could literally see it through her panties

[boggboss]

Again that dont mean she is thinking about you

[Anonymous]

She wants time, attention, 'resources', emotional support etc. if she can get it for free she will continue doing so. Most men don't understand that is the true currency...

[Anonymous]

She's indecisive about braking up with you because she knows if she breaks up with you all the free meals and free gifts go away

[annabananna]

I guess she has emotional attachment