Guys, Would you date a woman aged 40 who had never had a boyfriend?

[Ceejay12345]

[God_of_Thunder]

I don't see why not, provided our personalities were a good fit for each other.

The fact that she's never had a boyfriend would not prevent me from dating her, although I would be curious why she's never had one.

[Berethor]

If she virgin then it's good, but she might be too old to have children and it's bad.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If she is cute and mentally similar yes, never having had a boyfriend is a plus.

[LiamJHayden]

Probably not. Why? She is likely either a murderer who finally got released after a long sentence, a nun who decided after decades that it was not for her, or completely socially inept.

[aoihewgf]

If she's never had a boyfriend, I'm going to assume she's slept around the whole time OR she very unattractive or has mental issues

[Anonymous]

Are you the woman in this situation or do you know of a woman that is like this?

[Ceejay12345]

I’m the woman

[Opinion Owner]

You don't expect a woman to be single this long like you do for a guy since women are the ones that get approached and pursued

[Ceejay12345]

Well, in that case I must be really ugly as nobody has ever asked me out

[Opinion Owner]

Are you based in the US or outside the US?

[Ceejay12345]

United Kingdom

[Opinion Owner]

I feel tempted to believe you and I also guess that maybe women just don't disclose their situation as much as men do in cases like this

[Ceejay12345]

I am (sadly) telling the truth. I’m a decent woman with a good heart that would love to be loved and give love. It breaks my heart knowing I am not good enough for anyone

[Opinion Owner]

Well my heart goes out to you

[Ceejay12345]

Thanks 🙏

[Opinion Owner]

Are you a virgin as well?

[Opinion Owner]

Have you had sex or no?

[Opinion Owner]

Found an article posted two or three days ago of a woman just like you

[Ceejay12345]

I’m not a virgin , no

[Ceejay12345]

Where? Can you post the link?

[Opinion Owner]

www.yourtango.com/.../40-never-had-boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

How did you end up having sex for the first time then? Was it just casual sex only or just a hookup or like a one night stand? The woman in the article that I just sent you, she says that's how it was for her but she didn't have sex until 27 but she still has never officially had a boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Did you read the article I sent?

[Ceejay12345]

It was casual , drunken sex

[Ceejay12345]

Il read it now

[Opinion Owner]

Your situation sounds similar to the woman in that article that I just sent you, that woman isn't you who wrote that article right?

[Ceejay12345]

No, it wasn’t me but it is exactly like me

[Opinion Owner]

When did you have sex for the first time

[Ceejay12345]

18 years old

[Opinion Owner]

So it was just sex with that guy one time and you never saw him again? Yeah the woman in that article I sent you said she didn't have sex until she was 27 but it was a drunken one night stand

[Opinion Owner]

Even though you say you never officially had a boyfriend, did you end up ever having sex again besides with that one guy at 18?

[Ceejay12345]

Yes.

[Ceejay12345]

Yes , several times.

[Opinion Owner]

So overall all the times you had sex in your life, it was just hook up or casual only? They were not guys that you were dating? The guys were never officially your boyfriend?

[QuietRunner]

yes

if she wears thong and likes sex

[Shamalien]

Why has she never had a boyfriend?

[Ceejay12345]

Because no man has ever asked me

[Anonymous]

last thing you would expect to happen to a woman

[Ceejay12345]

I am her

[Opinion Owner]

well this is a surprise

[Opinion Owner]

you don't expect cases like this to happen to women since women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention

[In_Trance]

Huge red flag

[Ceejay12345]

Good to know, I shall now stop trying to look for love given that it’s a huge red flag for men. Thanks for stopping me from wasting time.

[Anonymous]

I Can’t date anyone

[Ceejay12345]

What do you mean

[dinojames22]

Yess