Would you date someone in their 30s who’s never been in a relationship before?

[Anonymous]

Trying to decide if it’s a red flag or not.

Yes I would

No I wouldn’t

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Ultimately that's a call only you can make, but to me it is a red flag.

I've had a lot of life and love experience, and have dated men who've never had relationships before. For me, it's a no-go now.

They're often just too inexperienced with how to be in a relationship (from how to initiate conversation to how to consider you in bed). Not to say there aren't considerate first timers, but for me I'm looking for someone who is more experienced.

[MoniqueTLC]

Would probably be better to be a bit more cautious and take thing slow. Someone in their 30's who's never been in a relationship won't have the life experience of relationships and knowledge so could react in ways that may not be warranted.

On the plus side, he would literally get conditioned according to you alone, so that could work in your favour ;)

[FilmGuy93]

I would... but it totally depends on what we mean by "never had a relationship." My dating history before my last ex is a bad joke, but it's not because I'm some ultra fuck boy; I'd just never dated anyone beyond a couple months because I knew I couldn't handle a relationship.

My last ex was the first person I dated seriously, and we were together for about a year.

[MarkosSPL]

it could be, or it could not be, he could have been focussed on this education and career the entire time, or he could have some childhood trauma that prevented him from getting into a relationship etc. etc.

dont be too quick to judge someone, if he was a creep, he would not have waited all this time to date someone, think of it that way

[ALPHABLACK]

No I won't dare anyone so that solves all the problem and someone in their 30s could be as much of a moron as a 18 or 20s so it's all the same

Sorry yo, ya brought a bad product so it will be bad 12 days and 12 years later

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yep.

I like the idea of being someone's first and only, as unrealistic as it may sound.

Maybe they were waiting for me, lol.

[Berethor]

If she virgin sure, if she ho than no, it might be a red flag to some guys.

[BeMuse]

If I like the person I would date them. Less baggage isn't a red flag.

[Avicenna]

If she met my dating criteria, yes I would.

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure! Where is she? When does she wanna meet me?

[BarryLiverstone]

I might but why hasn’t she been in a relationship before?

[dolemite89]

just because a guy hasn’t been in a relationship doesn’t mean they don’t have experience with women 😅

[Heolurt]

I know it's a red flag for guys like me who have never had a relationship or even a date.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I would but I would have a lot of questions tho

[DavidRaul]

Yes. I don't think your dating history matters

[Anonymous]

Why, what's wrong with him or her?

[shortster]

Experience is overrated. So definitely.

[888theGreat]

quit reading Redbook , it is all fiction

[BloodCursedDeviant]

You should look for other red flags besides that.

[Anonymous]

I would. I like girls who wait

[Anonymous]

Yeah it's definitely a red flag.

[MCheetah]

Sure.