Relationship advice?

[Anonymous]

Hey girls,

So I guess some background may help. I'm 23 I've never been in a relationship or even on a date. I find it hard to talk to people in general but especially women if I'm interested in them as more than friends. And well if you could provide any advice I'd really appreciate it.

I was wondering if you could give me any advice on how to talk to women and how to start conversations?

Do you have any advice on how to write a good dating profile?

Do you think being my age and not having dated or kissed is some sort of red flag?

And well anything else you think if that maybe helpful in regards to these questions?

[sarahsmith1]

Hey there,


Advice to start conversation with women / start talking to them.


1. U just have to be yourself, don’t try so hard to be like (other guys)


2. Some girls find it weird / annoying if you texted them out of the blue. So it’s a good point if you be friend with her on social media (such as instagram). So whenever she posted something in her story you may react to that (but dont react too often)


3. Do you have any girl friends? If you don’t it’s better for you to have one. So if you have any doubt you may refer to her (bc she can help u give some insight)


4. You should be able to make the conversation fun. For example whenever you talk with a girl (texting) you needed to avoid some kind of short response (ok, mhm, yea) this sounds so bored and shows that you’re not interested.


5. If you’re good at making jokes, you may put some jokes and related with what you guys talking about.


6. Try to asked about her opinion about something (sometime people overlook about this). It’s important to find a topic to start a conversation. So i would recommend you to asked (examples:
current issues about anything, don’t go to deeper)
Make sure the topic that you choose isn’t too heavy for her or else the conversation will sink. Find something interesting to talk about.


7. Asked about the girl interest. For example; if she likes anime, then you may asked what is her current anime that she’s watching. Her fav and so on.


8. Not every conversation will be responded well, everything takes time so do you. So don’t put so much pressure to make the conversation amazing 24/7. You just have to be chill and relax.


More advice: whenever you trying to start a convo, please don’t make the conversation about yourself. Make sure both parties enjoy the conversation. I wish you all the best.

[Selene1600000]

It’s not a red flag 23 with little experience is more common than you think, and most women care more about how you show up now than your past. Start simple with conversations: ask about something in the moment or about her (hobbies, opinions), listen, and respond don’t overthink lines, just be present and curious. For your profile, use clear photos (face, full body, doing something you enjoy) and a short bio that shows personality and what you’re into, not just generic statements.