How do I love myself?

[Skrimp]

I've (19 male) always had trouble with loving myself and therefore seeked people who could do it for me on dating apps. I fall in love very easy when someone likes me (toxic trait) because I'm not used to someone actually liking me for me.

So after my last little heartbreak when a girl decided to block me everywhere after we spend a whole weekend together, kissing, cuddling and actually telling that we like eachother, I've realized that i do not love myself and can't give myself that happiness i crave on my own.

So i just want to love myself before I start dating again. Hope it makes sense?

[Guy13]

Go see a counselor and work that out.

[Well_Wisher]

You can't truly love someone useless you don't actually love yourself first. And self love isn't something that can be taught just like tell you to love someone and you start loving her. Self love is also a process and it's not like you will love yourself in every aspect of your life and time. Somedays you will love yourself more and someday you won't. Know your worth your beliefs your core values and what matters to you. Dont just rush into relationships. Try to know yourself, love yourself first and then you can love other person at another level. Take a break from dating and spend sometime with yourself. Learn something new about yourself. Introspect about your good and bad qualities. Have confidence in yourself. at least fake it for somedays until it doesn't comes naturally to you. Say positive things. Hope you start loving yourself sooner.

[Dkc123]

I recommend show called cobra Kai (season 1)