Met a girl on Match and really like her. Would it be wrong to message her sister and have her send her flowers on my behalf?

[SB174]

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We haven't met in person yet.

[SueShe]

Whatever this "Match" is, I presume this is a place where people meet for hookups and the like, right?

Now, I am personally not in favor of something like you mention. You want to involve a third party as a mediator or intermediate. Why don't you do it yourself? Is there something that prevents you from sending those flowers directly to her?

If you involve a third person, then how will you settle the costs of those flowers? That means that you will have to send the intermediary cash, a check or transfer some money. If you already have to go through the hassle of sending money, then why not just send the flowers directly to the recipient? That would simplify a number of things.

[Well_Wisher]

It won't be wrong but also is at this moment. See its the first time you are sending her flowers so giving her those in person counts. The gesture that you went down the road, bought her flowers and then gave her yourself will make her feel special. And if you then take her out on a date to a nice place will be just like cherry on a cake for her. Its the first time right and you both want to make it special and remarkable. Hence this effort will count a lot rather than sending flowers from her sister as she will always recall that her sister gave her flower on your behalf and not you. Just because its first time and the time which will be remembered forever give it personally. That's what I recommend

[SnowedIn]

It's not wrong, but just why?

THIS is one of the problems these days with dating. This appears to be reluctance to personally engage.

Why on earth would you think she would be attracted to someone who can't directly send her flowers?

[SnowedIn]

Regarding your update: yes, send her flowers but do it to her not through her sister.

[SB174]

wanted them to be a surprise and I don't have her address

[SnowedIn]

Tell sister what the deal is and ask for address.

[Guy13]

Yes, that’s not impressive if a 42 year old guy can’t figure that out on his own.

[Anonymous]

Not wrong necessarily but I can guarantee you won't hear from her again if you do that...

[Iron_Man]

What why

[In_Trance]

yes it would