So, I’m on tinder. Before you criticize, yes, I know that it’s mainly for hookups. Unfortunately I moved out the big city into a real small town. I do talk to girls in real life, I got absolutely no problem starting conversations with them. I don’t always succeed in getting their number. I’m seeing less and less new faces here though. So, I decided tinder would be a good way to widen my reach. I’d like to see and get advice directly from women to help me be a bit more successful. I’d particularly like’d to hear from @PrettyPriya. I’m not shooting my shot, I respect your relationship, but we’ve had a few conversations in the past when WhatTheHeckkkk was still active, and I still see your posts. You seem like a quality woman, so I’d like your feedback.
I do have a screenshot of my profile pics as well, so if you leave a comment asking to see them, I’ll DM them to you.
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Thanks for the tag and apologies for the late reply. I had a lot of family stuff going on today. Okay, so dating profile…
I am not familiar with tinder or what types of girls it draws in the US. So, I am going to look at this as just a dating profile and not attached to any one site.
First thing I would avoid are words like “obsessed”. Here is why. While your obsession is over clothes, just seeing that word can send a negative subliminal message to someone reading it that you get obsessed with things. I would maybe change it to dresses smart and use the brand as an example.
The other thing is the part where you say “I do send voice memos a lot, be prepared”. That comes off almost as a threat. Like “you’re going to get voice memos, whether you like it or not.”. I would not word it that way. Instead, take a softer tone. Say something like “I am willing and do like to send voice messages to anyone interested for a more personal approach”.
I don’t know…something along those lines. I think you get what I’m saying. I’d be happy to respond with more feedback if you have something specific. Enjoy the rest of your weekend!
I appreciate your help. I hope your family situation gets resolved. I updated the profile as well, and since I can’t send a pic through a reply, I’ll DM it to you. Lmk what you think, please?
You come off very strange with that intro.. it’s like you are trying hard to look “interesting” in my opinion just keep it simple as in where you are from , 6’3 and then continue the - I am looking for long term relationship etc etc
Good luck ✨