Are all people meant to be in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Alright, so talking with my friends, we've been trying to find reasons why some people are incapable of finding themselves a person to be in a relationship with.
why some people even though they try hard going on dating ups, going out on dates, talking with people they like, they end up in the end still all alone and stuck in a circle of search and nothing.

I believe that not all people are meant to find a relationship, they should be happy being on their own and others shouldn't judge them for that. My friends say I'm wrong for many different reasons

I'm looking forward to hearing what other have to say :)

[JamesDiaz11]

Biologically, all humans are born with the intrinsic intent of finding a mate, and reproducing; however, as history shows, nearly all females will reproduce, while a smaller proportion of men will. It's my speculation that our tendency toward monogamy, coupled with society steered us towards officiating monogamous relationships, so each person had one other person (instead of one guy having 1000 women), which in turn made society less apt to erupt in revolution- but I digress.

I don't believe in soul-mates or anything like that; I believe each of us has the ability to find a good partnership in numerous situations. Yet, this doesn't mean that each of us cannot be a wreck, and simultaneously unable to find someone who either accommodates this or fixes it. There are people out there who are emotional/ mental/ physically car wrecks, and still pursue a relationship, which is destined to fail. Many people these wrecks encounter won't find them appealing, and for good reason. So, before we blame the world, or presume not everyone is "meant to find another," let's put the responsibility back where it belongs: on the individual.

If you as a person are the best possible boyfriend/ girlfriend you can be, engage life in a way that makes you mentally/ emotionally healthy and stable, enhancing your physical attractiveness as much as you can, being of good character, and pursuing education, career, community in a sound manner, there is little doubt that you won't quickly find someone who wants to be with you.

[serious]

No, not all people are meant for love and relationships. There are better who are best if they are alone.

[FilmGuy93]

Not all people should be dating, no. But I will say that a lot of those people seem to end up dating anyhow.

[boggboss]

What do u mean by meant to tho?

[Asker]

Supposed to be / should be

[boggboss]

But thats impossible to say as the only thing that states we are supposed to be or should would be evolution making us social creatures inherently I don't think anyone is supposed to be in a relationship unless that's what they want from life

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. Many people will not end up in relationships

[TrillXHippy]

No I’m not meant to be in one

[LazerBean]

Nope