Do you think everyone is destined to find love? Are some people just meant to be alone?

[nspencer]

[caring__1]

I don't believe in predestination, so I don't believe people are destined to either find love or be alone. Our life is what we choose to create and nurture, not what's handed to us on a silver platter. Nowadays, people don't seem to want to put forth the effort. They expect everything to be handed to them. If you want to be loved, learn what you can do to enhance your lovability. Focus on what you bring to a relationship rather than what you're entitled to receive from a relationship. Hone your observation skills. Learn to see where you're appreciated rather than assume anyone you find attractive should also find you attractive.

Also, look at the areas where you're open to compromise and the areas where you might be less flexible. For instance, though I realize my choice of living in the country on a farm limits the pool of women I have to choose from, this lifestyle is more important to me than settling, just to be in a relationship. Respect those things that are important to you, but also respect the rights of others to choose not to go along with what's important to you. People get along much better when they don't feel threatened by differences in others, yet it seems so common for people to feel entitled to push their agenda onto others, minimizing the others' thoughts, feelings, beliefs and preferences. If you want love, you can find love... just be realistic.

[Fireguy17]

no, there is someone for everyone.
not everyone ends up with a super model, nor would I want to.
not being sure of what your expectations are, so possibly that has something to do with it, but depending on what your interests are sometimes there are dating sites for that, or possibly try one of the better paiy to use dating sites.
That helps keep people that are just looking for hook ups away.
It can be a lot of work finding the right person, but like anything you get back what you put into something.
so keep looking,

[Anonymous]

I do know of a man who was with his wife all of his life and she died when they turned 87. They were both the same age. He got to live to be 98 years old and was alone for all of those years. His grandchildren never visited him and he was neglected for all those years. He told me, “my dad used to tell me that you can get used to anything but I never got used to loneliness.”

[skyeee_]

it's up to you whether or not you want a partner

[ashish804]

all will find.. just when and where is the matter

[jahaims]

Destiny isn't real