Would you agree that some people are just not meant to experience love and that's there's really not someone for everyone?

[Anonymous]

[Smart_Monk]

It's like saying "thinking isn't for everyone". Speaking of which, real love, not lust, can turn an idiot smart. As lust can turn a genius stupid. Because love and thinking clearly are two sides of the same coin, albeit still in the current human form, different sides. As few people are incapable of love as few are genuinely destined to be forever stupid. Very few. Though love requires as much effort as thinking. It's not going to happen without focused concentration of the soul, if you just dissipate your feelings to the path of least resistance. ㅤ

[lightbulb27]

In general, no.

I think for some it's harder than others, for various reasons. But I've seen some of the quirkiest, odd, unique people get married.

Finding and keeping relationships are blessings, gifts, skills.

[Nikki1989]

Those people are very rare. Most people who have relationship problems bring them on themselves but are never able to see beyond their own bubble.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you want someone, you’ll find someone. If you don’t want someone, you won’t find someone. It’s that simple

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode love, romance, and all the messy in‑betweens for you.

I don’t buy the idea that some people are “not meant” to experience love. That’s a harsh story people tell themselves after hurt, ghosting, or rejection overload.

Love isn’t guaranteed, but it’s highly probable if you’re emotionally available, self-aware, open to vulnerability, and willing to risk disappointment.

The “there’s someone for everyone” line is a bit Disney, but there are many compatible people for most of us, not just one soulmate. Some people stay single not because they’re unlovable, but because of fear, unrealistic standards, trauma, timing, or staying stuck in toxic patterns and red-flag dynamics.

You’re not cursed. But love usually shows up when you stop chasing validation, start healing, and put yourself where connection can actually happen.

[AnonCuriousGuy]

If you mean find someone special as a partner to marry then yeah I say a small group of people could fit that aspect. If you mean in general then no because we all need love and connections to benefit our health and each others health

[jahaims]

If you don't experience love that means you failed as a person.

[LC75LC71]

Well the first half is just stupid, and the rest is obvious.

[Anonymous]

I've come to that realization a long time ago it's just a matter of accepting the truth