How long has the infatuation phase lasted in your experience?

[Anonymous]

0-3 months

4-6 months

6-8 months

9-11

12-14 months

15+ months

[Finchie40]

It depends on the chemistry and connection I have with them , just because I think a girl is beautiful to my eyes it doesn’t mean her and I have great chemistry and connection , it might seem that way in the beginning but most people don’t look at the big picture when meeting someone new, they are just infatuated by them anything they say is amazing , you feel like where has this person been all my life , they laugh at my corny jokes , they are intrigued by anything y I say, not realizing it’s just the attraction that they are really drawn to That’s why I don’t jump into a committed relationship right away , Most people are infatuated when they meet someone new, that they find very attractive and get lost in a trance ,, especially if they are eye fucking you , of course it is a great feeling, if you both are attracted to each other but the reality of it is , you don’t really know what their intentions are, , if they just want to get laid or if they are really looking for a real connection, it’s always a 50/50 chance , if I end up in bed with a girl my intentions are to see her more and more and have her coming back for more and more but not really knowing if she is really looking for the same thing , again it is a 50/50 chance , sadly most girls today have other options or they are secretly married or already in a relationship with someone else cheating on their partners, because things aren’t going their way in the relationship , so they latch onto someone new thinking this person will treat them the way they feel they deserve to be treated , but the truth is , they are just a selfish person only really thinking of themselves , I can’ stnd selfish people , when the truth finally comes out, I pretty much lose the chemistry and connection I thought I had with her , when I find out she was lying to me , even though the sex was amazing, I feel like a total piece of shit afterwards knowing she cheated on her partner with me , even if she tells me she is leaving him and he treats her like shit I still lose all respect for her, and want nothing to do with her , all it tells me is , if I did choose to stay with her , it would just be a matter of time before she spreads her legs to some other guy when she feels like our relationship isn’t going so good. A girl like that is a girl that would never point fingers at herself she only points fingers at others thinking she is always right and someone else is wrong , I am not
Going to commit to a whore

[TheSpaceGnome]

If I'm infatuated with a woman, I stay that way so long as it's reciprocated. so Ideally, forever, I've not been so lucky yet though.

[serious]

Never had any infatuations in my life.

[Guy13]

18 months.

[Heolurt]

I don't let myself feel any thing for any female.

[msc545]

Until the next morning usually.