Would you Date her?

[Anonymous]

Would you have a serious relationship with a divorced woman?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It depends on the reason why she got divorced.

[WellGreetingsISay]

Sure why not.

[Asker]

Wouldn't you have a prejudice that she is unsuccessful in relationships because she has been married before?

[WellGreetingsISay]

Not at all. We all get into relationships that fail and sometimes that's a romantic one.

[Asker]

It really is true. I like your comment.

[WellGreetingsISay]

Thank you I try to be supportive

[Anonymous]

Not without vetting her very carefully. She's already got strike one.

[Asker]

And how would you do that?

[Opinion Owner]

Time... lots if time. At some point you'll have to bite the bullet. But if you give her enough time she'll eventually show you why it didn't work out before.

[Asker]

What if she tells you that her partner was abusing her?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd feel bad for her. But that would tell me she's not a very good judge of character. And I wouldn't want to be with a woman who makes those kind of bad choices.

[Asker]

I don’t think anyone would choose someone who is bad to them, some people change after marriage, it already makes sense that she had a divorce. She wanted to leave him because he was not the man who she taught he is. Is it a bad thing that she didn’t know?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Because people tell you who they are if you pay attention. He gave indications, she just didn't pick up on them. A guy would be foolish to choose a woman that is that bad at sizing up people. If you're a guy you want to choose a woman smarter than that.

[NinaDobr12]

Will you date her?

[Jmmmfi4]

Lol no that's like digging through someone's trash

[Hellraiser1984]

Yup.