Would you date her? If yes, why?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I see many red flags in these pictures that would make me pass her by.

- Overtly sexual clothing

- Tattoos (and in overtly sexual, attention-seeking locations)

- Sad, lifeless eyes that speak to lots of past baggage and emotional damage

- An obvious focus on fashion, typical of urban liberal women who expect high lifestyles, and generally expect a man to provide it to them in return for very little.

These are just what I can tell from 3 pictures. From my perspective, these things loudly proclaim "not wife/girlfriend material", which means, at best, she is "good for casual sex only." Note that all of her red flags are a result of her own choices in life - she had potential to be wife/girlfriend material, but she chose a different path, and, at least for men like me, this means that she has taken herself out of wife/girlfriend consideration.

That's not to say that there aren't men who would commit to her - there are - but they probably aren't the men that she would want. Either they're the top 10% guy, who is likely who she's been dating, and who will just use her for a while and discard her and will never take her seriously, or it's going to be a low-value beta guy that she doesn't desire or respect.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

Not overly fat, looks like she's taken a bath, and yeah... going off visual alone, us dudes are not complicated.

But I'll break down why I wouldn't... because I'd love to just bang this chick just from looking.

Pictures... she shows off her titts and plays dress-up. This means a bunch of bullshit if you're going to try and commit to this chick. Tattoos... people do get them for reasons... sometimes it's to hide track marks for shooting up drugs (not this chick... maybe), to draw attention to something or get attention in general. Rarely do they have any real significant meaning... if that makes sense. The claim will be that they do, but yeah... does it really? Then all the stuff that might come out of her mouth or surround her from her actions.

TL;DR She's not overly fat and looks like she took a bath. That's basically it for a green light from me.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No. Even if we were in the same age range. . . tattoos are a total turn off for me.

Anonymous · Answer

If you just post a picture (this is you right?) with no other context then most guys (maybe a few girls if she’s bi) are going to think about one thing only.

Yeah I would definitely have sex with that girl if it’s just about looks. She’s very cute But I don’t know anything about her personality, job, life situation, etc. So asking me if I would date her is a question I can’t answer (nor should anyone answer).

Also I would be careful posting pics of yourself online. I do understand you are curious where you stack up with people. But it’s not hard to use image search software to figure out who you are. If that’s not you then you shouldn’t be posting it at all.

ConspiracyTheorist · Answer

Well she is definitely a pretty woman that is worthy of some good fucking but how could anyone answer this question... except horny ass dudes that are shallow and only want one thing from any female, but for real she looks good and if she isn't a shallow piece of shit herself then yes

Massageman · Answer

No too sure. In pic 1, she is trying to eat a fried egg with chopsticks.

In pic 2, we can see a tat that gives the illusion of a deeper cleavage. (What other illusions does she use?)

In pic 3, she wears her ring on her thumb: I never could understand that.

Plus, my wife might a bit miffed.

carlgpfeifer · Answer

I would love to go out on date with girl just have good time by her dinner spend good times together hold each other in are arms just relax at night go sleep night wake up I had great time on a date with girl that is enjoyable to be with from Jerry pfeifer

Anonymous · Answer

I was gonna say no at first but I think it depends on your personality. I think that's how it is for average looking people. Above average looking people can get away with being assholes because people value their looks so much but I also think that is the beautiful thing about average looking people. That persons personality can cause you to like them. It so much more deeper than looks.

OlderThanILook · Answer

Nah. She looks nice but it's not worth the effort. I just know she has an ego. I'm not about spend weeks of effort to prove that I'm worth an hour of her time.

DynamicKicker · Answer

Maybe? Not that I find them unattractive, I just have to get to know someone personally before considering anything like that. She is very pretty though.

Th3ft · Answer

Well probubly not. I would have no issues with dating a hot Asian girl like her but I have no idea about her personality. And that is really what matters when getting in to a relationship.

20yearsolder · Answer

I would, she's absolutely beautiful. That's just going by appearance, if she's a sweet as she looks then she's a 10 in my books

ThinkFitness23 · Answer

Pretty girl, not my type but attractive. Date, probably not, would probably play the short game though if there was chemistry.

Pot8o · Answer

She's really hot but apart from her being well out of my league I doubt we'd have anything in common.

genericname85 · Answer

no. she looks like she has an onlyfans and also i hate tattoos. specially tattoos in the chest area. wtf. hell no.

Heolurt · Answer

Question is would she date me and the answer to that is a simple no, she'd see my face like every other girl and definitely reject me instantly, so no I wouldn't date her because there's not even a chance.

DubiousIntentions · Answer

She could have found a better place to put a tattoo than between her boobs.

goaded · Answer

No, because (a) she would laugh in my face, and (b) I'm not keen on tattoos. And I have no idea of her personality.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Based off of looks, yes, but it would depend on other aspects too.

SnowedIn · Answer

The tattoos are a bit of a turn off. But I'd be willing to have dinner and see if we click to date.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

Not into basic instagram girls. We probably have nothing in common anyway.

Adititte · Answer

Sure. How else would i get to know her personality?

Xcl45 · Answer

She's beautiful, but looks alone isn't enough reason to date someone. You have to get to know them first. Character matters more.

AviatorTom · Answer

No, she's too young for me, and if I was younger, the cleavage tat turns me off.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not. I'm not a fan of tattoos, so that's a turnoff. Andshe does not dress very modestly, that's a turnoff. And there's a big enough age difference that it probably wouldn't work out anyhow. So, not worth my effort most likely.

Apple1996 · Answer

Yes she is very cute!

JustADudePlayinADude · Answer

Looks is not a reason I date someone. Need to know more about them to say that I would.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

No. I'm not single. If I were, sure I'd give her a date or two

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

She is very pretty and I would date her cause she's young

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No. Why?: nose peircing, tattoos, engagement/wedding ring on her finger.

MiamiMadness · Answer

Tough to say yes to a date just based on a pic but she looks nice

omnivert · Answer

No, Not my type, For a fling- yes But as girlfriend - dont know because I dont know this person.

Staximus · Answer

She's no mud bird, but I'd have to meet her and hang out with her for a few days to decide whether I'd date her.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

I would even though her tattoo is a turn off to me but otherwise, she looks very pretty in my opinion.

bananathunder · Answer

just by looks... she seems cute, but I need to go off more than that if I'm going to date someone seriously

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I would "date" her with the idea of having as much sex with her as possible but I would never see her as long term.

Anonymous · Answer

She doesn't seem like she'd be my type, but she is beautiful

BJP21 · Answer

Girls with tasteful body art are a bonus for me.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Yes I would. She's beautiful and I like her tattoos. She could smile more...

Backstage_ · Answer

I would love to date with her.. she looks incredible with nice tattoos and unique styling

Guardian45 · Answer

Maybe. It depends on her personality and our interactions.

noohair · Answer

I don't like tats on women. Just my way of thinking. Cute girl.

msc545 · Answer

why not? She is quite attractive and hopefully not too crazy.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

A social media hoe? No. No, I would not. She's purely smash and dash material.

Grayout · Answer

Because she's hot. Why not talk to her and find out?

Anonymous · Answer

No. She seems to love exposing her tits for cheap attention and I hate females who have nothing else to offer the world.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

She's a pretty girl but I don't know if I would date her foe me it takes more than just looks

MisterTee · Answer

If her personality is attractive like she is physically then yes.

iloko1 · Answer

Yes she's gorgeous (to me that is).. though she seems quite classy

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Anonymous · Answer

If I was dating sure. Great looking woman, she would geat army candy.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

I don't know- she looks like a guy.

MCheetah · Answer

No. Valerie looks like a Basic B*tch to me.

slatyb · Answer

I see no reason I would not.

EspressoTeen234 · Answer

No she's not my age

Anonymous · Answer

Nope out of my league.  Show me some fat fuck ugly women.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

I wouldn't see why not

chicosuave · Answer

Hell no she's not my type

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I would! She's really cute!

humanearth · Answer

Nope, I'm too old for her

bean2k21 · Answer

NO, she looks like a tattooed skank.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Sure! When does she wanna meet me?

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