I realize that the crushes I develop are out of the blue. My very first boyfriend in hs, we bonded over books and could talk about the most random of things naturally. My second boyfriend, I realized I started crushing on him because we always cuddled for no particular reason and saw each other at school everyday (college). It was hard to get his attention since we were always with friends, didn’t have long phone conversations and wouldn’t respect my boundaries. It was ass but I stick it out hoping he’d change and I always had a hard time saying no. Now the guy I’m currently talking to, I was introduced to via FaceTime and we had a hi bye relationship. One day I looked at him and found him attractive then we started flirting. Never could have a conversation naturally unless our friend group was around. Now every time we talk it’s usually about the same three the four things and when we try to break out of that by doing 21 questions, we basically answer the question and fall silent again. The silence isn’t awkward at all rather forcing conversation is. I catch myself calling wanting to talk but then it’s only the same the topics yet again followed by silence. I feel so lost but I don’t want to give up.
Have you ever liked someone for the wrong reason?
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It sounds like you are just staring to date to be honest. At least you are assessing your Results and behaviors. This is very helpful and you will be glad you did as the man behaviors will come more recognizable. Soon, it will not be too difficult. You will be able to smell the good ones and the bad ones. Keep dating and working at it and everything will come together. Good Luck with the guys !!
I think we've all made mistakes. The key is LEARNING from your mistake and not repeating it. I have NO sympathy for a woman who repeats the same mistake.