Have you ever liked someone you knew just wasn’t a good idea but you couldnt let them go?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking with this guy for awhile now, for the most part he's great. So funny, smart, hard working and really good to me. The problem is I don’t trust him. I’ve quietly caught him telling many white lies and just lies in general that have made me question literally everything he says. You would think that would be enough for me to just let him go but I guess because we get on so well it’s been hard to. I’m ALWAYS having to question whether this man is telling me the truth or another one of his little lies, which is obviously no way to live. If he was anyone else it would be different but I’m having the hardest time coming to grips with just letting him go. I know he likes me and cares about me, he really is good to me (which is why it’s so hard to let it go I guess) but it’s causing immense mental stress on me. It’s so disappointing and depressing. I just wish this spell would break so I can block him and move on with my life. If someone seems to good to be true, you don’t know them well enough yet.

[OverThePlace]

Yeah his name was J. Constantly lied, even small white lies, I would call him out for the lies and he would get defensive and want to argue and say he has never lied. Even showing him proof that he has lied, he will still lie and deny it. I liked him for well over 5 years.

If you truly want things with this guy to end and be over with, call him out for his lies and make it known that while you do like him, you can't deal with him lying to you anymore, as it is affecting you.

[Wise4myage]

No, that has never happened to me.

[Asker]

Smart man

[Jamie05rhs]

If he's lying, call him out.