You do not know why you fell for them so hard. It would never work out, they are not really interested in you and yet you are so taken and it is so super annoying.You keep asking yourself, why did I fall for them, why can't I stop my feelings? It feels like a love spell was cast on you, just to make you crazy. It makes no sense at all and you think with time it will fade but months later you are still mesmerized by them.
How did you ever get past this?
Have you ever fallen in love with someone that you really didn't want to?
I met somebody at a New Years party. We dated for a while but I had no intention of it getting serious. I was just looking for somebody to hang out with while I was in college. Somehow I quickly fell in love with her anyway. I was 21 and in college and she was 17 and in high school. Still , there was something about her that made me totally fall in love with her. I think she had magic pheromones or something. WE would go out on dates or sometimes we would just park somewhere in my car and just kiss each other. One day she dumped me and went back to her old boyfriend. I was blindsided and completely devastated. I was going through a pretty bad part of my life and she was like this big ray of sunshine and all of a sudden it was gone.
Can't say I ever did, happened awhile ago... and thing is I didn't want to like him at all. I wanted to not like him, but damn. This is why I wondered how others did.
I have no idea, we only talked a little every day, technically texted as friends, we barely hung out, like once a month. We never actually did anything fun together. He was stuck on someone else and the most we ever did was have dinner a couple of times, as friends. No dates, no goodnight kisses, none of that.
Yes it has happened to me. I can't say it was love, but a stronger attraction, yes. To get past it I re-read the book "The art of seduction" by Robert Greene and I analyzed what really attracted me to this person. I read the "victim types" part and I understood which victim type I was (victim of seduction :)) and it helped me go past it. I also read the seducer types and understood which type he was. So I analyzed why I got seduced by him.
Once very recently. She was perfect in every way and really good to me, and yet... just called things off all of a sudden. I asked her what the reason was and she said "Nothing. You were great. This is just all me right now" which everyone knows is bs. I guess I'll never know and it just weighs on me.
Yes I get this. only mine is a weird situation. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship. but a friend of ours asked to hop in bed with us for a threesome and we both fell in love with him. We like having him in bed with us, we love the guy. Right now we havenāt let it pass. We are going with our gut and still meet for threesomes
Yes I have fallen in love but I don't dare show it because I'm pretty sure that they her with somebody right now but the answer is yes and you just have to let it play out there are times where I would love to just be b o l d and say what I want to say but I don't dare because like I said I'm pretty sure that there was somebody and she is hot LOL
having a crush, even an intense infatuation and strong interest in someone, I do not consider that love, because it is one sided... and that's not my idea of love
for, love is always about two people into the same feeling, and when that happened... I did want it as much as they did, and then it happened eventually
Yes. Iām currently in love with someone whoās been in a relationship with someone else for six years. I saw that crap coming and it still happened. Now Iām stuck between a rock and a hard place, wishing the best for her while also hoping I am whatās best for her. I freaking hate this.
Yes, back in my teens. I had a gut feeling she was all wrong for me, but I just got drawn in and I couldn't do a damn thing about it!! How'd I got past it? ... well I didn't have much of a choice after I caught her and my then best friend at it.
Happened to me twice. Both were married and both had 5 kids... strange coincidence. The first one was a mutual crush, but mine lasted longer. The second was awful. I could not shake it after years. I finally had to break off all communication with her. That one still hurts.
Yes I have a lot cause I don't mean to get so attached I just do and i think it's because of the shit I been through in my life I hang on to whatever I can
Yea, it happened a few times to me. It's always hard to completely forget people like that. That love turns into something negative usually, and that makes it easier to not have those feelings for them anymore.
Yes, happened with my best friend and class fellow. She fell for me while i used to treat her like a sister. It was not a clean break from her and i feel sad about it. Sheās married now with a kid.
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