How do People have such good partners but I can’t even find one?

[Anonymous]

Like i see so many people with such beautiful and amazing partners, some of these people are like not that much older than i am but I’m already 23 and i still haven’t even found anyone yet. Haven’t even gotten a chance to date yet, nobody’s ever been interested in me. so I don't know what I’m supposed to do anymore

[xCherryKizz]

Dating?

Some tips to make yourself more attractive:
1. Get good at your job, high pay, high position
2. Good grooming. Style hair, clothes, accessories
3. Comfortable/laid back chill vibes. Dont overshare and keep yourself mysterious
4. Make more female friends. It will make you understand them more

[Asker]

So basically shallow superficial stuff. Are you even human? Do you not look at other stuff? High pay/position, looks. etc

[Asker]

Making female friends are hard cuz they are hard being friends with cuz they’re always in groups. And i feel uncomfortable

[Asker]

Plus being friends with females as a guy doesn’t ever work out

[xCherryKizz]

Look i only meant to help and i do have reasons for what i state.
I apologise if they seem insignificant to you, and im sorry if i hurt you feelings.

As for the female friends i agree. It's just that when guys have sisters or some female friends growing up, they tend to have better emotional capabilities to understand the female side of things. Could be just me I don't know

As for the high pay/position, it is not for everybody. But in time you'll realise that money speaks volumes because some women (if ur dating a woman) intend to have kids and start a family. So naturally it is a bonus if you could get your life together and know what you want. Even if it's a freelance job or your own business, it could be a good sign.

I'm speaking from experience with over 20 female friends where most of them are single, and knowing what most of their ideals are in a guy. You can choose not to heed my advice, it is not important

[LazerBean]

There are very many things it could be. The best thing you can do is evaluate and figure out what the other people are doing that you are not doing.

[Guy13]

Spend time on your professional career and demonstrate the economic and moral propensity to maintain a relationship and a woman will find you.

[Asker]

What? What does that mean? Women don’t find you, that’s Bulls*t to me cuz a woman doesn’t approach men, they expect the man to approach her so

[CoolCatMar1]

... that's sad

[Asker]

What?

[Asker]

Are you trying to be rude? What’s sad?

[CoolCatMar1]

Sad is that you can't find a partner... Do you know the reason why this happens

[Asker]

I don't know, nobody’s interested in me. People are really superficial nowadays. And are really closed off. It’s not easy finding a partner but it feels impossible.

[CoolCatMar1]

Oh... Well, maybe you aren't seeking in thw right places

[CoolCatMar1]

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