Is a woman being taller than you a big issue?

Question

My ex always made comments about it.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I dated a girl that was a little bit taller then me it didn’t bother me much, but it bothered her more. Most girls hold preferences more than guys do based off of my experiences , It was a little awkward to me as well considering I usually ended up with shorter girls, I am 6 foot , and she was 6’1 but I wasn’t after her height , she was just beautiful to look at and had a body and a half on her , and I loved her personality in the beginning , so I had my fun with her , until she met a much taller guy then me , so her selfishness and preferences took the best of her I told her she was a selfish person and that it’s fucked up that she is dumping me for a guy that is taller then me being dumped over height , but she said it was her life and she can do what she wants to do , I said ok well good luck to you , so we broke up and she ended up with this other guy and it didn’t last very long cuz he dumped her , i found out shortly after he dumped her she eventually killed herself , I always wondered why she killed herself , was it because she realized she was selfish? A question mark that sits over my head , because I honestly treated her like gold and we had so much fun together and the sex was amazing but to be dumped over height struck me to be silly As fuck to be honest

beernbacon69 · Accepted Answer

It's not really an issue for me, especially since I'm 6'-3"... however I did date a girl that was pretty tall at 6'-1". We met on a dating site and were trying to meet up for about 2 weeks since we lived about an hour apart. She kept asking if I was really as tall as I had said in my profile a few times. I said yes so apparently she had gone on dates where a lot of guys lied about it. I even went so far as stopping by a 7-11, standing by the door where the height scale is on the door frame in case it's robbed and having a friend take a picture. Of course, I had to embellish a bit so I had my arms full of bags of chips and a look on my face like I was shady and stealing all of the chips. She thought it was hilarious and we ended up going on our first date a few days later. She showed up for the date wearing 3" heels so she was taller than me... which made me laugh and I said how this was a first for me being the shorty on a date.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That’s the reason why I don’t date shorter men they always have to show it how short they are by joking to see my reaction.. I dated one it was horrible
In a way his insecurity didn’t help the relationship. And he was like 3 cm shorter nothing much.. he still was insecure.

Ez-Bri-Z_v2 · Accepted Answer

I'm taller myself so finding taller women than me is kinda hard. I ended up marrying one who is barely 5'0 lmao

Summeroflove · Answer

No. I like it. I like girls or really any height shorter same height or taller. Beautiful women over 6 foot melts me.

But everyone is different. He just seems shitty. If you’re not what he’s looking for. Why be with you?

Guy13 · Answer

I do not know a woman that's taller than me that would date me. My opinion, like, or want would be absolutely not matter in this dynamic.

Avicenna · Answer

Wouldn't be a problem for me, I prefer tall women.

Berethor · Answer

I don't like the idea of dating a woman that look more masculine than me, don't feels good.

Sunssong · Answer

Only if I let it. I'm over 6 foot though so I don't experience girls being taller usually.

Anonymous · Answer

Why did he date you? He knew you were that tall and that you cannot make yourself shorter. The fact he make comments on that while you were together is mean

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

No. I'm just 162cm tall, pretty much every woman I've dated is taller than me and it was never an issue.

Oldschool1981 · Answer

I'm 5'6" and I've never had an issue with my height despite its obvious downsides. I have no issue dating women who are taller; dating women who make more or are smarter or dating a woman who is the alpha between us.

SnowedIn · Answer

Not only is this not a big issue, it's not an issue at all.

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

I’m 6’3. Tallest girl I dated was 6’1. It’s a nice change from shorter girls.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No, and I'm 6'2. If we click, we click. I don't let inherited traits over which neither of us had zero control influence it.

BCA6010 · Answer

Not really. The last girl I really liked had about 2 inches over me, though since she never wore heels, I didn't really notice it.

VanillaSalt · Answer

I got used to it after a few years. I’m 5’8” she’s 5’11”

Bergy37 · Answer

I'm 5'11 so I do see some women almost/as tall as me or taller. I don't have any issue with it, it's a physical thing & nothing to be embarrassed/ insecure about!

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Yeah it is for me... It just feel weird... There was a girl who I find really attractive but I just dropped the whole thing because of it...

ChiTown33 · Answer

That don't happen very often. I'm 6'5" I've really only had a thing for one woman taller than me. Ironically she was Chinese.

ThomasDavid1989 · Answer

Some guys are weird about height

I like it when a girl is shorter than me WITHOUT heels on, but taller than me, WITH them on. That wouldn't be too tough, depending on how high of a heel you're willing to go on. I'm 5'8"

Surely · Answer

Would love to experience a date with a woman who was taller than myself!

genericname85 · Answer

a little taller is fine. a lot taller makes sex awkward logistically.

JSmuve · Answer

A woman being taller than the man is a big issue for women.

Adogdog · Answer

I prefer to be taller Haha, and I also have green eyes like you lol

boobliker · Answer

I would of love a woman taller than me the things I would of done with her

htmndg183 · Answer

Nope. I actually prefer it this way. How tall are you?

OddBeMe · Answer

Not really. I mean I’d have to dump Gal Gadot after our one night stand. She looks like a nag.

EA1988 · Answer

No, but it's quite rare for me as I am 6'1. I don't mind along as I find her attractive

abc3643 · Answer

No, I love it! It's a bit of a turn-on.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

High parasites, low parasites, meh.

exitseven · Answer

No, unless she was a foot taller.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 6'3", so yeah.

SunnyRS · Answer

No I don't think it is an issue for me.

TallAnon · Answer

No idea, never seen a woman taller than me.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

A little bit, I guess.  I might be insecure

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Not at all.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Gross

Anonymous · Answer

Men care about weight, not height.

Anonymous · Answer

If them don't have a problem , me neither.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Given I’m short? Yes

Stevefiveo · Answer

Not at all.

Anonymous · Answer

no,,

shortster · Answer

Not for me

In_Trance · Answer

Nope

karekaaaa · Answer

Yes i won't date her

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