I wanted to have sex, and told my boyfriend that he said no he was tired and I got really upset emotionally bc it had been 4 weeks since we had sex and he was like oh I’m so sorry I didn’t realize it had been that long…. is he getting it somewhere else? Either with another girl or dude? Not opening the can of worms as to why I am also suggesting from another dude.
It's important to note that there could be many different reasons why your boyfriend may have forgotten that it had been a month since you had sex. It's possible that he was genuinely tired and didn't realize how long it had been, or that he was preoccupied with other things and simply forgot.
However, if you have reason to believe that your boyfriend may be cheating on you, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with him about your concerns. It's important to approach the conversation in a non-accusatory way and to give him the benefit of the doubt until you have concrete evidence to suggest otherwise.
If you're feeling insecure or unsure about your relationship, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or family member, or to seek the guidance of a professional counselor or therapist. They can help you work through your feelings and develop strategies for communicating effectively with your partner.
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At your age there is no way you should be skipping sex for that long. something is going on. Whether it's emotional or he's cheating I don't know, but you need to talk about it.
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That is not normal. Not sure what his deal. You can't force sexual chemistry. Find some one that you are compatible with or you are going to continue to be miserable and you deserve better.
Either he’s busy or he’s not interested in sex with you
Maybe he's gay.
No maybe is just not feeling it.
Sure he is with other girl
GO TO HELL
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