Why do I feel like that?

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A few months back i agreed to do a posing for an art class and after it i felt a bit awkward when the girls and guys approached me for hanging out latet considering they were a bit younger than me and i haven't been with their age group (like 19-20 ish)

I did hang out with a few but it felt really awkward later and i dont know why. They have been calling me after that but i have avoided them. Why could it be that i felt so awkward afterwards?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's possible that you felt awkward or uncomfortable after hanging out with the younger group of people because you may not have felt like you had as much in common with them or you may have felt like there was a significant age gap. It's also possible that you may have felt self-conscious or unsure of how to relate to them.

It's important to remember that everyone has different comfort levels when it comes to socializing and spending time with others. If you don't feel comfortable hanging out with this particular group of people, it's okay to politely decline their invitations or to take some time to reflect on what kind of social situations you feel most comfortable in. It's also possible that you may feel more comfortable socializing with people who are closer to your own age or with similar interests and backgrounds. Trust your instincts and prioritize your own well-being in social situations.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Right hearted people are not drawn to worship from there success. Often therein comes a desire to own, possess, conquer, and replace individual placed upon the pedestal.

Many of your most secular and culturally perceived successful people are the most loneliness with the greatest chasm of hollowness and emptiness. It is not a happy life when there a sense of wanted for something that represents us rather than for the individual we are and are not. I think you were tapping into that sense.

You know a Biblical understanding of man and how to interact purposefully is the only way I know how to deal with self-serving and seemingly dead hearts.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

I may have a different understanding of the term "art class" than you do. I am very cautious and skeptical about those art classes.

The question that immediately comes up to my mind is whether those art classes are of the deviant ones where you are requested or "motivated" to pose nude for those (mostly) male "artists"?

In that case, no wonder that they fly around you like flies around a pot of honey. Those "artists" are hoping to get better acquainted with you in the hope that something more may develop.

Even if you did pose as a non nude model, the end result is about the same. It is not really normal that the students want to interact with the model without any good reason. Normally, those professional art classes strictly segregate the professional part from the more private one.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

There is more to this story, I suspect. What kind of art class?

PointTaken · Answer

Maybe you feel awkward because they're younger? Maybe it was because of the type of art you modeled for. If it's a part nude or nude, that would be awkward for them to crowd around after you just stood in front of them.

Iron_Man · Answer

What kind of a pose was it in a bathing suit or regular clothes?

QuietRunner · Answer

they wanted sex with you but you didn't want them

Why do I feel like that?

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