Like bro this can't be a coincidence. I'm a really pale and blonde girl. I always somehow stand out bc of the way I look. And I'm conventionally attractive. I had a few Model Jobs too.
Yet somehow I always attract guys where I'm not really their type. My ex preferred middle eastern and Indian girls bc he always had a thing for them. He's east Asian. My current boyfriend actually gets teased by his friends bc he always used to dislike blondes.
And yet somehow they still ended up with me. I really need an explaination for this. People say blonde is the beauty standard but I don't know where y'all get this from? I have never met one who actually said he specifically preferred blondes.
How I feel personally? I don't know. I appreciate the type of beauty I have naturally, especially since many women pay so much money and spend so much time trying to get what I have naturally. I'm confident and appreciate it but it still low-key hurts that I'm not the ideal for the guy I'm into.
Yet somehow I always attract guys where I'm not really their type. My ex preferred middle eastern and Indian girls bc he always had a thing for them. He's east Asian. My current boyfriend actually gets teased by his friends bc he always used to dislike blondes.
And yet somehow they still ended up with me. I really need an explaination for this. People say blonde is the beauty standard but I don't know where y'all get this from? I have never met one who actually said he specifically preferred blondes.
How I feel personally? I don't know. I appreciate the type of beauty I have naturally, especially since many women pay so much money and spend so much time trying to get what I have naturally. I'm confident and appreciate it but it still low-key hurts that I'm not the ideal for the guy I'm into.
