Why do I mostly feel attracted to blond guys?

[lemonette]

Even if he is not that handsome, if he is blond, I feel that he is quite attractive... Do you agree with me? Why do you think blondes get more attention?

[spice]

Attraction is a complex phenomenon influenced by a combination of biological, psychological, and sociocultural factors. One possible explanation for your attraction to blond men could be societal and media influences. In Western cultures, blond hair is often idealized and associated with youthfulness, attractiveness, and vitality. Hollywood and advertising industries perpetuate these associations, which could unconsciously shape your preferences.

Biological factors might also play a role. From an evolutionary standpoint, being attracted to someone with different physical characteristics may be advantageous for genetic diversity. Additionally, visual stimuli can strongly influence attraction. Your brain may have formed a pattern recognition where blond hair is linked to positive traits, whether that’s based on real-life experiences or cultural conditioning.

Psychological factors can't be ignored. Perhaps you've had positive personal experiences with blond men in the past, leading to a type of 'imprinting' that influences your current preferences. Sometimes, we're also attracted to what we perceive as 'novel' or rare, especially if blond hair is less common in your community.

Lastly, peer opinions and shared cultural beliefs can shape who we find attractive. Friends, family, and social circles can subtly or overtly influence our preferences over time.

Understanding your attraction may require introspection and possibly professional guidance to unravel the complex interplay of these various factors.

[Anonymous]

Everyone has their preferences and if only blonde guys interest you, then so be it. Being interested in only blonde guys isn't unreasonable at all. Who cares what other people think anyway. Let yourself be happy and only date blondes. I don't know if they are the only ones getting attention but a part of me doesn't think so. If you are American, the standard is tall, dark, and handsome. You must be thinking of blonde women, they're the ones who get all the attention. I don't think it's the same for men.

The guy I am talking to atm is blonde. It's my first blonde guy and I've always found them attractive. Whenever I would find a hot blonde celebrity guy, like this guy which I don't know if he's a real dirty blonde and his name is Franco Masini.

I would show it to my mom or friend and she would always shoot it down like, "That guy isn't hot, he looks like a girl. He's too feminine looking, he's not masculine. He's not dark and handsome." It always annoyed me because I don't find a lot of blonde guys hot and I just wanted to talk to another person and rave about how hot some guy is and then move on. It wasn't a big deal like my mom or friend would always make it out to be. Now that I'm dating a blonde guy, which I know my mom is seething at and hating since she can't even look at a blonde guy, so far the dating is pretty pleasant.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Your mom is right though. That guy is femboy as f*ck

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill yet who is having more sex? I doubt it's you.

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill are you gay or something why are you even looking and assessing his attractiveness anyway

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I tend to be attracted to men who are different from me, growing up I always liked blond boys and they liked me back,

Then I started liking Asians too, I still follow the pattern, I am attracted to differences.

I believe that has it’s genetic base, as mixing with different genotypes helps your future children have wider range of genes, making them more likely to survive.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I no longer have a preference though. Out of all the men I’ve dated half were blond, blue eyed. But I no longer feel attracted solely to blond men.

[monorprise]

People need to understand that evolution is a communal process. There must be broad borders of an interbreeding population for the selection process to work.

At the moment with everyone sleeping with everyone, there is only 1 human community, which effectively means we are not evolving very well because particular traits don't have time to be developed in isolation and compete against similarly developed traits. Given there is no isolation.

You breeding with someone different from you merely means your children will be a mixture, it offers no advantage to you or them as individuals.

Because children do not evolve only communities, if you and your children remained largely part of a community otherwise similar to themselfs, then the new genes they would open the door for the development of new traits.

As it is however your kids will do the same thing you did in a global gene pool becoming ever less distinct and ever more vulnerable. Which is irony exactly what the very young human race indeed of diversity wants to NOT do to survive and evolve.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@monorprise What’s your problem exactly?

Yes, I am from a small country of 4 million, with my brother being green eyed, my mom being blue eyed, my dad being black eyed. One of my grandpa being black haired, another one - a redhead, another grandparent - a blond. What should I stick to exactly? What’s your permission, who should I “breed” with? Which road should I follow, redhead, black or blond?

Let me choose whoever I want to “breed” with.

No worries, it will definitely not be you.

[monorprise]

I don't have a preference with whom you @LaFemmeFatale_1 should breed and I don't have a problem. I just think it is worth my time and interest to point it out on forums like this popular yet incorrect understandings of evolution when someone proposes doing something on that account.

Your idea is sound, but it won't give you the benefit you think it will in the modern world as is. An unfortunate result of globalization having more unfortunate consequences for the already too homogeneous human race.

Regardless I wish you the best regardless of whom you choose to have many lovely children with.

That is the greatest thing in life.

[love_conquers_lust]

You need to look up outbreeding depression.

[Finchie40]

Because they have opposite hair color of your hair color , is my guess , or some reason you just find blonde hair attractive on guy’s , like most guy’s find blonde hair on girls’ attractive as well. Me personally thinks it stems down to how society labeled blonde hair as being very attractive , Their is so much talk bout blondes period even a shit ton of jokes lol so Blonde hair just sticks out more than other hair color is my guess. I find blonde hair on girls attractive as well , not saying I don’t like other hair colors but something about a blonde hair girl is hot as hell to me

[Meropatrick]

Its a fetish or a preference. Maybe ur genes are more compatible with a blonde guy and this is expresseed through the attraction. Its the same why guys like small hips on women or big eyes it all indicates good genes. Attraction is all about chasing good genes and avoiding people with bad ones. Also blondes in general are more attractive in the dating pool whether a man or a woman. Thats why many women dye their hair blonde. Another reason but i dont think its a strong one. Which u may have been raised in a culture that idiolise european beauty standards. Like east Asia or so

[AviatorTom]

Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. You like blond guys. Nothing wrong with that.

In my younger years, I was blond... before my hair started turning gray.

[Benplus10]

Because deep down you are attracted to dumb. That’s the stigma attached to blondes usually it’s in the form of a bad dumb blonde joke, said by a man, coming from a deep rooted patriarchal society. Maybe you think your intellectually average, with aspirations of being hella smart, and a guy with blonde hair is less threatening…
Ginger haired guys have notoriously small penis’s. Brunette and black hair… too common. What you should think about is the possibility of no hair. Smooth, soft.. no stray hair in your food or hair clogging up the sink.

[Berethor]

Same reason that most guys prefer blonde girls, blonde hair is more rare and more pretty.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Everyone_Loves_Blondes

[Dargil]

They look safer and more androgynous, which makes them more attractive for sexual intimacy. Got me laid when I was younger and buff.

[CuriousTommy]

Kinda like me with Asian girls. She doesn't have to be gorgeous or anything. Just their face features and skinny bodies. And their attitude and very respectable behavior. Its a question you ask yourself not others lmao. Maybe you have a thing for blondes. Maybe its because where ever you were raised, there weren't many of them?

[Anonymous]

I have semi blond hair and blue eyes. I noticed that I always got attention from darker complected women. Burnette white girls and minority girls always gave me attention vs girls who look more like me.

My brother however looks nothing like me. Brown eyes and jet black hair. We joke that “the milkman was good looking” (can apply to either one of us). But he always got more attention from blonde girls.

[RoseySarah]

Being a dyed blond we get way more attention! More rememberable and just more noticed!

Guys being blond sometimes more attractive just so rare here!

[desidoll]

Awww me too. My husband is blond and we have been together for 7 years and recently just got married. I still look at him the same way as I did, never lose any attraction.

[TenderFantasy]

They're more rare probably. Also, if you have black hair or dark hair, we are usually attracted / curious about those who are different from us.

[OfMiceandMen]

Quite often people like to contrast their partners, you have black hair, etc. so a lighter complexion blonde haired guy would likely be more acceptable. The whole opposites attract thing.

[provokeesmokee]

Blond is boring to me.

Honestly I only really register hair colour when it's red, silver, or white.

Blond, brown, black... Eh. I don't really have any particular draw to any.

[summiter]

We all have different turn ons. I think it is no big deal. Have all of your lovers had blond hair?

[WhereIsMyMind]

I've noticed that people are usually attracted to physical characteristics that are different from their own.

[Billlewis]

Although they're not nearly as coveted as they used to be, many women are attracted to blond haired, blue eyed guys.

[FriendlyCanadianGuy]

I had an ex say she could never date a guy with blonde hair because her brother has that hair colour.

It's all preference lol

[Anonymous]

White beauty standards? You even said even if he isn’t that attractive (I’m guessing face wise, bone structure, etc.) , the blonde hair (just a hair color by the way), somehow makes a difference.

[Miristheiss]

Why am I attracted to pale skinned redheads?

The heart just wants what the heart wants.

[lightbulb27]

maybe a strong emotional influencer in childhood was blonde?

[Fireguy17]

probably for the same reason that guys are attracted to blondes.
We all like different things, that is what keeps things interesting.

[TipsyFr]

I’ve only ever been interested in brunettes or redheads. We all have a type 🤷