So me and my sister have, since 25 been stuck in a love triangle with a male. We have both moved on with our lives but he’s always there from time to time, and we both still have feelings for the same person. Me and my sister are just over 9 months apart, in the same year at school and hung around with the same group of friends. There was this “popular” male who people are said played us, though we couldn’t see it. He was closer to me, we was friends more than anything and would talk daily, him and my sister had more of a sexual chemistry but never spoke on a intimate level. They slept together regularly though he wouldn’t speak to her much afterwards and it was kinda just a sec thing between them. Nothing between him and me has happened on that level, we have been intimate but we haven’t had sex. All these years later, I’m now 30 and it’s still happening. I still talk to him daily but he’s started sleeping with my sister again as us being sexual (without sec) last weekend. We aren’t anything so I can’t complain to him, but when I have in the past he says he has feelings for us both. Could this be true, is there always a favourite?
Have you ever had feelings for two sisters?
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I meant since 15, not 25
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Doesn’t sound like you moved on with your life then if you’re still betraying your sister.
Wow ok. They technically have never been together, and in recent years have only met through me and him meeting and me inviting her out. I admit they have a past and currently are in the middle of something present happening but I’ve never acted on the way I feel, for the reason alone that I wouldn’t want to hurt my sister, but she clearly doesn’t think the same for me.
You said yourself you and him were close friends while she and him were more on an intimate/chemistry level so how is she wrong? What you should’ve done years ago in the beginning when she started showing interest in him was tell her you liked him. Instead you’ve crept behind her back knowing what they have going on. That’s not caring about your sister it is just selfish and wrong.
In high school i had a crush on twins. Dated one but nothing came of it.