For context, I'm 23 and he's 34. He has aspergers.
Guys, do you ever have thoughts about your sisters?
For context, I'm 23 and he's 34. He has aspergers.
Nope. I have a sister and have never had any of those thoughts. I've watched some great brother sister porn on pornhub. But, ya know, they aren't brother and sister. It's also usually step brother and step sister so there is that. But no, never a thought about my own sister. Probably watched to much hentai and thought this would go differently. If your the only girl around his age who has treated him well his entire life he may have grown romantic feelings out of lack of interaction. He probably also cares about what you think and will likely not assault you. Try talking to him, let him know you are definitely not interested. Things will forever be weird, but if you still want to be part of his life after this you can be, just at more of a distance. This is a tough situation and I'm probably missing loads of context since interpersonal relationships can be complicated so take everything anyone says here with a grain of salt.
Firmly tell him no and that it is not right. People with Asperger's often don't understand such boundaries or don't see the point in having them. So sometimes you have to be more forceful. It can be anything from a kick in the balls to telling your parents or more extreme if either of those things don't work.
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1. No, I NEVER had any improper thoughts about my sister.
2. You (and your brother) cannot undo what has been done and you will always be uncomfortable with him.
3. What, if anything, do you want to happen to your brother as a result of this incident?
I don't want him to be in trouble per say. But I can't live with him anymore and feel safe. We both live with my parents. He has been talking of moving to a group home for some time. I want him to go there as soon as possible.
Tell him that you are not comfortable being in the same house with him and you will not need to tell your parents if he proceeds with his plan to move to the group home. And give him a reasonable deadline.
He created this mess, not you, and it is not your fault, but. . . a few years from now, is it possible that you may feel guilty about making him move out?
I do not have a sister but I have thought that if I did I would probably want to be with her at least once. Maybe let her catch me masturbating to a pic of her or something like that in stead of just telling her about it first.
What if he had come at you differently? would you have reacted differently?
I have noticed what my sister looks like as a woman. I have never wanted to have a romantic or sexual relationship with my sister.
Forgive him. He has Asperger's. Maybe that is punishment enough. Try finding a girl for him. It is already hard for him
Fuck you. He tried to sexually abuse me and you're feeling sympathy for him? I want nothing to do with him now, let alone find someone for him.
Only about how much I'd like to use their heads for baseball practice.
Brothers and sisters don’t touch each other like that you have to be a troll
Obviously they don't fucking touch each other like that asshole, or they shouldn't anyway. But I'm just wondering why he did this. But he did, he tried to, and now I'm scared.
Cause I'm scared out of my mind, crying my eyes out because my brother I've known and trusted my whole life tried to touch me and you called me a troll.
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Not those kinds of thoughts... that strikes me as a bit weird.
Probably just sexually frustrated. Just give him a cuddle and a handjob or take off your top and let him jerk off to your tits.
Your experience creeps me out. I 've never had those thoughts.
Yes, i love my sister
He did before he tried to touch me inappropriately.
He watched too much porn
Fuck no. That’s sick
Yes a lot
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