Girls, did you ever make a decision about a guy you thought was too quick too judge?

[Anonymous]

say you knew a guy and he liked you, he was a gentleman, he was nice, caring, he wasn't some push over and you reiterated to him that he's a smart guy, nice guy overall, passionate what to accomplish in life, his vision on topics such as politics or religion aligns with yours, good rapport, he showed respect to you and wasn't disrespectful. If a minor disagreement occurs between you to and he realizes quickly the way he said it or worded it was wrong. Would you really toss a friendship with a guy you like out the window. Would stubbornness take over where you want him out of your life only to realize things could have been handled better. Obviously if a guy disrespected you to the point of you crying or cursed at you, or insulted your family or cheated on you those are really unforgivable things. But I mentioned this to my sister and my mom what happened and my sister and my mom know when to tell me off if I was being a stupid guy. But in this case, I told them the truth what happened, and my sister said I think she over reacted, give her space its kind of immature on her end to act that way. I'm the kind of guy where I can let bygones be bygones.

[Monalisa77]

Depends, i do have v strong views about stuff and am v sensitive, im kinda like that with my own Family so i probably would be

The current guy i like has only been flirting atm, but its always a worry we might not be on the same page

[Asker]

why do you feel that way? doesn't he reassure u dont worry?

[Monalisa77]

Its early days flirting atm, dont really know each other that well. From What I've read about him we agree on certain things and the way he speaks to me already, if u know what i mean? Difficult to explain

[Asker]

how did u meet?

[Monalisa77]

Go to the same event once a month

[Asker]

i just wanted your input on something but i was wondering if it was ok to dm you on here, if not its ok i can just message on here but its going to be kinda lengthy

[Monalisa77]

Its late hsre so maybe tomorrow, literally got my eyes closing lol

[Asker]

no worries.

[Anonymous]

It depends on what the guy said or did.