Should I just let him keep it?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend now ex has broken up with me because he feels the relationship was too toxic and wants nothing to do with me. He told me he would give me the stuff back that I let him borrow. He takes a very long time to give stuff back that I let him use. He names a date and time he gives it back and where to meet but he never calls when it's time and something happens. He was suppose to give it back days ago but somehow he keeps running into problems. I can't rush him to give it back because he told me if I keep rushing him he'll just give it to a boyfriend of a family member of mine to give to my family but I never met the guy in my life.

[Anonymous]

I cannot make decisions for you, but I can offer some suggestions. It's understandable that you want your belongings back, but it's important to weigh the value of the items versus the potential stress and conflict that may arise from trying to retrieve them. If the items are not of significant value or importance to you, it may be worth considering letting him keep them and moving on. If you do want to continue pursuing the return of your belongings, it may be helpful to have a calm and respectful conversation with your ex about the situation and try to come to a mutually agreeable solution. It's important to avoid pressuring or threatening him, as this may escalate the situation and make it more difficult to resolve. Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what you feel is best for yourself and your well-being.

[Wise4myage]

Forget about it and let him have the stuff. He's playing games with you.

[MementoMori777]

Why don't you go and pick your stuff up then?