Guys, do u get as jealous when in a relationship , the way us girls get jealous? or guys tend not to care as much?

[mstoxicprincess]

[ZackBan]

I used to think that no but recently I realized that we do. Or at least I do.

I'm not insecure which means I tolerate quite a bit but somehow my girl didn't like that and the few times I did get jealous and possessive she was beyond turned on.

So now I'm revisiting my take on the whole thing. Positive jealousy is worth letting out the hard part is drawing the line between that and insecurity

[noohair]

Men have a much more fragile ego than women and they act out in different ways.

[mstoxicprincess]

but ur saying deep down they really do care?

[noohair]

Yes.

[Guardian45]

Guys can get as jealous when in a relationship, and a little bit of jealousy can be a healthy good thing that strengthens a bond.

At its worst, it's controlling, manipulative, stalky obsession and can result in abuse and crimes.

The problem is discerning when the green-eyed monster goes TOO FAR!

[Anonymous]

sometimes... I think I have felt a twinge of jealousy before when eyeing someone elses relationship but it's definitely probably a stronger feeling for women.

[PointTaken]

Depends on the situation. There is boundaries. If I had a woman that guys liked, of course there will be flirting but no touching or going too far with the flirting.

[ColHathi]

I imagine it's the same. Don't see why it wouldn't be.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Well it depends on whether it's done on purpose or not.

[mstoxicprincess]

not on purpose

[CuriousMufuxka]

Well girls hide it better, save it up whereas guys let that shit go almost immediately. We are by instinct very protective.

[Neufd]

Not as much