It's perfectly okay to communicate your dealbreakers to someone, and in this case, it's smoking. It's better to bring up the topic sooner rather than later to avoid wasting both of your time. You could bring it up in a respectful way, such as saying something like, "I just want to be upfront and let you know that I don't date smokers. I think you seem like a really nice and attractive guy, but smoking is a dealbreaker for me. Are you a smoker or would you be willing to quit?" This way, you are being honest and respectful while also giving him a chance to respond. If he is a smoker or unwilling to quit, then it's better to know early on before you both invest more time and emotions into each other.
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