Guys, would you prefer if a girl came up to you and asked you out?

[Akam93]

Updates

+1 y

I'm mostly afraid to approach any guy I get rejected a lot. :(

[connemara_crocodile]

I'm indifferent, as long as the result is the same 🙃

[FilmGuy93]

I would prefer that, yes.

[OfMiceandMen]

For sure, why does it always have to be the guy to ask out the girl. I think a lot of new relationships would evolve, if girls took control of the situation and asked the guy out once and awhile.

When you think of it from a statistical standpoint, your odds of getting asked out falls by 50% when it's left up to just one person to make the move. The odds are significantly less when you add-in the guy maybe shy, he may not know if she really likes him or not, etc.

Girls: Why not better those odds and make it happen... most guys would be relieved and think you're really cool.

[OfMiceandMen]

As per your update... don't let the rejection get you down. If you know your a good person, then its their loss. Quite often being rejected has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.

[NathanDavis]

sure... this is actually my experience in 80% of the cases

as long as we end up together, makes no difference to me who approached first... nor them

[20yearsolder]

I encourage it. Life is too short to not go after what you want. Rejection is just part of life. If it doesn't work out, wait for the next one to come along

[Andres77]

It would be a nice change of pace. Is she also paying? That might mean she’ll want something in return and use me for my body…like reach the top shelf or help her rearrange the furniture in the living room or move a dresser outside.

😉

[exitseven]

I was really shy as a kid. Even if I knew a girl liked me I was still to afraid to make a move. I probably would have appreciated a little encouragement.

[SnowedIn]

Prefer? Not necessarily. I sure wouldn't mind, but it's not a desire either way.

[boggboss]

I wouldn't mind it especially if I didn't know how she felt

[Guardian45]

I love when women know what they want and are not afraid to ask.

[Guardian45]

I'm not sure why you're getting rejected "a lot". Maybe it's your approach!

[DavidRaul]

Yeah sure. Who wouldn't want that

[Coden7]

It’s welcome for sure

[boobliker]

that would be very cool and nice

[standardguy]

Only if she is a pretty girl/woman.

[Paulychicagoluv]

It would be nice

[Luckycharms12]

Be different change of pace

[Zlantur2]

I wouldn't mind that either.

[htmndg183]

Yes.