Guys, would you reject a girl who came up to you and asked you out?

[Akam93]

[NathanDavis]

no... that's how I ended up with girlfriends

[Coden7]

No. Unless she wasn’t interesting

[Finchie40]

Yes if I was already involved with someone , or if I wasn’t attracted to her but one thing I won’t do is be rude to her , whether I was attracted toward her or not I am still polite about it cuz I understand the courage she took to approach me , I tend to put myself in other’s shoes whether I agree with someone or not , and think how would I feel or how would I handle this situation , so when a girl walks up to me I think how I would feel if I approached a girl and she was rude
To me from the start , We don’t walk around with signs flashing above our heads saying what are
Relationship status is or what we are in to so I can’t stand when people are rude right from the start , like they act like their shit don’t stink , I just SMH when I see people doing that to people , there is no reason for it ,

[SteveSmith1985]

I wouldn't reject her if she was someone I was interested in.

It really depends on whether the guy is into you or not.

It's the same as when a guy asks a girl-out. How that ends up going, is going to be totally dependent on whether that girl is single and interested or not. Same applies here.

If you're worried a guy would reject you because it's you (rather than him) doing the asking. The answer is "no." You should go for it. Good for you. And good luck 🙂

[humanearth]

The only way I would reject them. If I was with someone and I would reject them in such a way. That it would boost them them up.

Like I might say something like this.

Sorry, but I'm with someone right now, but if I was single. I would've love to go on a date with you.

It's takes a lot of guts to walk up to someone and ask them out.

So why makes things worse for their self-esteem. Why not let them down and still build up their self-esteem at the same time.

So they will have the courage to ask someone else out again.

[Heolurt]

I have thought about this for a very long time.

I wouldn't do it out of spite of only ever have being rejected myself but I think I would reject her, I have been approached by a female for her friend before only for it to be a prank on me and it was in public and a decent size crowd laughed at me and called me ugly and I honestly can't stop replaying that scene in my head everytime I think to myself what if I was approached by a female.

Sure it is possible in some people's minds she could actually be legit when approaching me but my experiences in life have shown me that's just not a plausible situation for me to ever find myself in.

Its next to impossible for me to ever meet someone in this lifetime who could ever genuinely want someone with my face, I've only ever been told by everyone I knew and even random people how ugly I am, my own mother hated me because I was too ugly for her perfect family.

[Dutch1987]

That depends on whether I am interested or not. If not, I will reject her. I think that is kinder than leading someone on. Both gals and guys have the right to reject people they are not interested in. Of course you should let people down gently, but don’t hem and haw.

[lightbulb27]

of course, I have. you have to get used to that...

guys get rejected as well.

Realize a lot of rejections, were about me... not her.

[OfMiceandMen]

I think the girl would have to already have a rapport with the guy, like have seen him before. If he doesn't know the girl at all, he may suggest talking for a bit before he makes a decision.

[Slay256]

I love your username. I read that book and watched the film.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Slay265 It's a good band too!

[OfMiceandMen]

@Slay256 Thanks, it is a good book, never watched the film. I was somewhat reluctant as movies can sometime not do the book justice.

[OfMiceandMen]

@WanderingLoveWizard Interesting, I did not know there was a band, what genre of music?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@OfMiceandMen If you don't know then you probably wouldn't like them lol. They're a metal band

[TadCurious]

I would be flattered and appreciate the gesture. Whether or not I would accept the date would depend on if I was single and had that kind of interest in the girl.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, not unless I wasn't attracted to her. If I WAS attracted to her, I would take her up on her offer and have dinner with her and find out what she's all about.

[UmbrusNightshade]

Depends. Mostly unless I had very little physical attraction I’d be open to it because my luck approaching women hasn’t been good.

[Sixgunsound]

Absolutely not! Taking initiative and showing interest is a turn on for me. It also avoids messy consent/intent issues.

[Bricealan]

I have been asked out in the recent past, but unfortunately, it did not work out. She was very pretty also, and had a good job.

[Anno2]

Happened a couple of times when it was out of the blue. Like u could talk to me before asking for a date.

[Gent207-2]

Depends on method and context.

I. e. funeral vs a bookstore lol

[Adam1978]

Maybe but I would do it gently because I know how tough that can be to do.

[BeMuse]

I have rejected many girls that have come up to me and asked me out.

[SnowedIn]

Not just for asking me out, no. Probably only if I already had an SO.

[AydenHazor]

It depends on the girl. If I like her, I'm not rejecting her, if I'm not interested, I'll let her down easy. I actually appreciate a woman who takes the first step

[magiusX26]

if she had tried a few years ago, and she was someone i would be intetested in i likely would not but now, no matter who i would reject.

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends on her personality and if I think I'd like to be with her.

[Anonymous]

If I liked or found her attractive absolutely. But some guys would be suspicious if some random girl they never seen or talked to before just walk up to them and ask them out.

[AdithyaR]

I would reject her for her sake. She can do much better than me.

[RHK36]

If I don't like her, then yes. I'm not an asshole that would ever lead someone on.

[Pohjolan]

That's contextual.

On one hand I wouldn't go on a pity date but on the other she would get bonus points.

[bolverk]

If I did not know them I would politely turn down the offer,

[MadAndBankrupt]

Yes, I don’t like girls who go straight up to men and asking them things

[LiamJHayden]

I have not yet unless I was already in a relationship.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

If I wasn't attracted to her, yeah. If I thought she was cute, I'd go for it.

[Danisgivingit]

No way. I’d find it sexy and a turn on. However, I’d also have to be into her look/vibe to say yes.

[Anonymous]

There is a low probability I would reject women. Women involving in my life (without malicious intend) are a blessing.