Guys, if a girl made the first move and asked you out, but you're not into her or don't find her attractive, how would you turn her down?

[IceCreamSandwich]

A Flat "No."

"Look, you're a nice girl, but..."

A Lie, such as "I have a girlfriend."

Rudely. "Fuck no," or laugh at her.

Ghost her.

Just go along with it until you find someone better.

[Guy13]

I would go out and establish a friendship... thank her etc. I would also schedule another meeting and give it a second chance. And then, "I'm just not feeling it but I enjoy talking with you etc..." No one needs to crush anyone especially the one who risked.

[Chazmatazz269]

I’d accept the offer and give her a chance. Physical attraction is such a small part of a fulfilling partnership. If she didn’t win me over by the end of the date, i’d offer to pay. Then tell her how incredible it was that she asked me out and explain why i didn’t think it would work out. I’d have 911 on my phone ready to hit send because literally every woman who’s ever expressed an interest in me without me initiating contact was a straight up psycho. No joke.

[pass_the_celery98]

I don't mind being friends with girls. I've seen girls who are kinda fat. They worked out, got in great shape and looked beautiful. If a girl is decent looking but not someone you would pursue but she's nice, then I would talk to her and exchange numbers or social media and just chat. But she has to be interesting and have a good sense of humour.

[driven159]

you don't know if you are attacked to her if you don't know her first thing you know is she really likes you or she would have not taken a chance asking you

[IceCreamSandwich]

I'm asking if you do know you aren't attracted to her. Like maybe you already know her as an acquaintance or something and you know it wouldn't work, you don't want a relationship with her. How would you let her down since she has taken the chance and really likes you?

[driven159]

telling the truth is anyway best no games just tell her that you are so flattered that she asks you, but you are not interested at the moment on a relationship now

[HighValue]

I just tell them that I don't think we would be compatible for a relationship.
That way it is a clear "no," but I am not saying anything specific to make her feel bad either.

[grapefruit11]

That’s nice if you. I think that’s a really good way to handle it

[slatyb]

“Thanks, I’m really flattered but I don’t think it would work.”

[MikeInHawaii]

I had to turn down a marriage proposal. I gently explained that four-year-olds can’t get married. She asked me when I was going to be five.

[Jouth]

I usually pee on her head.

The intense amounts of confusion negates the pain of rejection and heartbreak.

[Anonymous]

I'd politely turn her down. "We can just be friends."